Is this random men in the wards asking you these questions? If so I think it's pretty rude. You should either ignore those questions completely or if they insisst tell them it's unethical and it's against regulations for you to answer.
Don't cry, don't regret and don't blame
Weak find the whip, willing find freedom
Towards the sun, carry your name
In warm hands you are given
Ask the wind for the way
Uncertainty's gone, your path will unravel
Accept all as it is and do not blame
God or the Devil
~Born to Live - Mavrik~