Can't find a girl at college and there's over 4,000!

[corey1985]

Hello,

I'm new on here and this looks like a very active place so before I throw myself in front of a bus maybe somebody can help me see what I'm doing wrong.

I've never had a real girlfriends as it was never a priority for me and I have moved around alot the past 10 years but I think I am ready now since I'm 24 and kind of lonely.

I've tried to go sit with random girls eating alone in our university's cafeteria based on the recommendation of some females I work with who are also students-that's didn't work out even though I had fun talking to them they simply ignored me or acted like they never saw me before if I talked to them again and they seemed to be having a good time based on their body language.

I tried to talk to a girls by randomly walking up to them and sawing I didn't know them but just wanted to say," hi" and I even asked one girl to hang out at a school event but she was going out of town and I could tell she thought i was an idiot anyhow.

I tried to meet a 32 year old student I am mutual friends with but she refused because she doesn't date.

Finally, there is a girl who I believe rides the bus (I ride it also) as she has a lanyard for it and week at dinner I noticed she really dresses up now and fixes her hair nice. It's quite a drastic change and she looks amazing but shy and quiet.

Several days later I was at lunch and saw her at a table with a few of her friends so I walked up to give her my number. It's spring break so I figured if I didn't act right there I'd be angry I didn't talk to her. I took a apice of paper and wrote my name and walked up to her table. I greet everyone by just saying hey how's it going. I placed the paper on the table, and pointed at it. I said you should give me a call sometime to her. I told everyone to have a good spring break as politely as I could and left the cafeteria.

I've heard that's a scary thing to do and it was but felt good.

I've seen her a time or two since spring break but she is always in a group of girls that semed younger than girls my age (I'm 24). I know she isn't going to call me even if she wanted to because she's probabl;y shy and her friends probably gave her crap about it saying I was a freak or something.

She's never alone like most girls and they even put their dirty dieshes on the belt together!

I'm so lonely and I do everything like shopping and going to movies alone.

I'd really like to ask her to hang out at dinner or something sometime but I don't want to embarass myself again; maybe she'd go if I could ask her alone.

The semester only has about a month and a half left so I need to do something before I spend all summer alone since there is only like 15 girls on campus and last year they were all taken or psychotic.

Thank You and sorry it's a long post; however, it helps you understand better.

[Sonrisa]

post a picture?

[the_robot]

post a picture?

Of him or the girl?

University is full of girls but they are always on groups...

[Sonrisa]

Of him or the girl?

University is full of girls but they are always on groups...

duh.

yes, robot, we all flock to each other and somehow still get laid and lose our virginity.

[the_robot]

duh.

yes, robot, we all flock to each other and somehow still get laid and lose our virginity.

Well, he is the one who said the girl being with her friends is a bit of a problem...

[corey1985]

I meant to they are always "in" groups not on them lol. Anyhow the_robot what do you mean?

[Sonrisa]

32 year old student I am mutual friends with but she refused because she doeswn't date??????????????????/

ha ha, he must be talking about me

[corey1985]

It's too bad because she is very good looking for her age.

[Sonrisa]

damn, there it goes - for her age. you must be talking about me then.

[Sonrisa]

sooo, how about that picture?

[corey1985]

I'm working on the pic give me a few minutes....

While you're waiting do you have any ideas on how I get to know this girl more?

[corey1985]

I dont have enough posts to give links or photos yet but is there another way I see show you some pics on Facebook?

[corey1985]

facebook.com/photo.php?pid=261727&id=1838424712
facebook.com/photo.php?pid=276301&l=1fb45f560d&id=1838424712
facebook.com/#!/photo.php?pid=190200&id=1838424712

Here's pics of me shooting a film project and at Citizen's Police Academy

[QueenofCorona]

Dude, you live in Moorehead? Weird. I've live St Paul. Small world.

I don't think you're ugly or anything. In your pics you strike me as sorta studious and maybe a little stiff.

You'll find a girl. Don't force it and don't feel bad. There are guys I went to school with who NEVER talked to girls and they're all married now. You seem really into your activites there and if thats what you are going to school for and find a career doing that I'll bet you'll meet lots of girls and really hit it off when you are out in the job world.

I think my only suggestion would be maybe gain some weight but I like my men meaty.

[corey1985]

Yeah, I'm in Moorhead and I am very serious but I think I was very friendly when I approached those girls to give that one my number. I was at dinner tonight and saw them and I actually had 2 classes with one of her friends last semester as a film major so could I use that to my advantage?