How old are you?
There isn't a battle of the sexes... just a lot of heartbroken fools looking for a generalized answer to an indescribable pain someone they loved had put them through.
Neither men or women are lucky enough to slip free of pain and misery when gambling with love and heartache.
"The weakest soul, knowing its own weakness, and believing this truth that strength can only be developed by effort and practice, will, thus believing, at once begin to exert itself, and, adding effort to effort, patience to patience, and strength to strength, will never cease to develop, and will at last grow divinely strong."
- James Allen