Penis size and preferences

[Kaius]

Every woman I have ever been with told me my penis is perfect for her. I don't know if that's a compliment, comment, consolation, whatever. It's basically 5.5" long, and the girth of thumb-to-index finger-tip (like when you do the OK sign). I always wonder if women have particular preferences in size/shape of a penis.... or if she loves the man enough, any size would be fine. I have seen very few penises in real life (at the gym). The porn actors are obviously larger than the general population. So what do you women prefer? Big? Small? Average?

[girl68]

Are you asking because you don't believe the women have told you that it's "perfect?"

[Doc Durian]

They prefer it in their vagina, from what I've been told... not between a guys index finger and thumb.

[Gigabitch]

Nobody really wants a monster cock coming at them, threatening internal bodily harm and permanent disfiguration of the vag. If these girls said it, it was probably perfectly sized for the job, you know?

[erik]

Lets be honest ladies, enough with the sarcasm, what would be your ideal size if you had to choose?

[MissAnn]

8 inches

But that is ideal...anything bigger than 4 is more than enough to get the job done. Also girth is VERY important, and unless you have freakishly small hands you are ok in that department.

To answer the rest of your question: if I love the guy anything is fine. Size is not a deal breaker, or an indication that a guy is good in bed. I don't exactly have a large sample size, but from my limited experience my connection with someone and their creativity, passion, and enthusiasm in bed are WAY more important than penis size.

[cmacattack1]

It's a point of pride for guys, but part of helping yourself become a stronger, more confident, and attractive person is not caring about such things.

Most people aren't micropenises, and if you are I'm sorry. It's probably difficult to be confident in that position.

Other than that, it should be fine. My ex has seen her roommates boyfriends cock who happens to be a good friend of mine, and told me it was bigger. Her last guy was bigger too. It isn't a big deal to those that are decent human beings and care about the kind of person you are. She still fell in love with me, even after a couple sober premmature episodes the first few times. And more after that. Maybe I'm just lucky but it shouldn't bother you.

Work with what you got. What are you going to do about it?

[erik]

edit: lol, I mis-read your post

[Krissykris]

I've spoken to alot of ladies on this subject and everyone has a different opinion, it's like asking a guy what type of boobs does he like. All guys like different size boobs, all girls like different sized penis's.

Like it was said, no girl wants a monstrous penis coming at them, it would just hurt and be uncomfortable and probably make ya loose eventually. And no one wants a tiny pecker that they can't feel.

I prefer 6", my boyfriend is 7" and it's just a bit on the big side for me, but I'd rather a bit big then a bit small. I've been with guys who had 5" and guys who have have 9", both sucked.

[JJfromphilly]

As a guy i wonder this sometimes. I stopped worrying. Even an average guy like me can make a girl come 6 times during sex. I think for woman its more than just penis size and shape. All kinds of shit going into it, eye contact, feelings, timing, all that shit.

My advice, dont give penis size a second thought. If you know how to work it the only people who will judge you are the other guys in the gym you speak of and **** them

[Petit Papillon]

6 times during sex...

[dewilliams2]

I've spoken to alot of ladies on this subject and everyone has a different opinion, it's like asking a guy what type of boobs does he like. All guys like different size boobs, all girls like different sized penis's.

Like it was said, no girl wants a monstrous penis coming at them, it would just hurt and be uncomfortable and probably make ya loose eventually. And no one wants a tiny pecker that they can't feel.

I prefer 6", my boyfriend is 7" and it's just a bit on the big side for me, but I'd rather a bit big then a bit small. I've been with guys who had 5" and guys who have have 9", both sucked.

I like all breast sizes...ya really can't go wrong with a pair of boobies big or small...does that mean that women like all penis sizes?

[Gigabitch]

7" is my preferred size. My husband's is too big and he has to be more careful because of it. It would be nice if he could just go for it without worrying about hurting me.

[OneQuestion]

from your size description you are pretty much smack dab in the center of the chart - meaning most men are your exact size, a small amount are larger, and small amount are smaller. You are pretty much the 'average' size.

I am a guy, so I don't have the best answer, but I can tell from how my girl reacted to my penis... Mine is almost 7inches, but more like 6.5inches long, and about 1.25 inches diameter.

My fiance' told me once that width matters more than length - there was a question, "would you rather" in some cook or magazine, and it was would you rather have a 8" penis, or 2" diamter penis. She said the diamter is more important.

Also, my girl often tells me to be careful, and 'DON'T GO SO FAR'... especially at the start of sex. After 10 minutes or so, then I can go as hard as I want without hurting her, but at the beginning, if I go all the way in(even slowly), she squirms and says to not go soo deep for a little bit.

So it seems, from my girl, and from the other posts, that 7" is about the largest they want(at least most women I'd guess). So you are just fine where you are. Not to small at all, but not to large to hurt her. Just large enough to please her fully.

[doppelgaenger]

When you watch too much porn, you need to learn to separate fantasy from reality. Of course the porn stars are faking it when they're getting pummeled with that 10 inch battering ram. Their moaning might sound orgasmic, but if you listen careful enough, you'll notice the faint indications of pain. Of course it's faint because their vaginas are so numb after being ****ed so many times by huge dicks.

I assure you, my friend... even a 7 inch penis can be too large. You can bottom out, which seems quite painful for a woman. There are large and small vaginas alike.