Hi, I am a college senior male and am currently strongly attracted to a junior girl. We do not each other that well yet, but I believe we have mutually good feelings toward each other. At one point last year, the girl told one of my friends that I was good-looking. I have not been able to get to know her that well because she dated this one guy till November and studied abroad last semester. After a lengthy wait, she's now back and single. However, I graduate within 3 months . My time in college is running out quickly, but I still pursue her because I know she's the total package. She's beautiful inside and out, and she is so fun to hang out with! I went to my school's senior prom with her last week, and we had so much fun there! We definitely got to know each other a lot that night, and I felt that some chemistry was building between me and her...
HOWEVER, I am beginning to question how much she is actually into me. On Gchat she and I discussed the possibility of going to what I call a one-in-a-lifetime concert. Both she and I are huge fans of this musical act, and I offered her to get her ticket. Then, she asked me a question that made me wonder about her interest level of me.
Girl: I have a question
Me: I may or may not have the answer
Girl: haha. do you see this concert adventure as a date?
Me: (Of course I want it to be, BUT I will just say this to help you feel less pressure) Not really
Girl: Okay. Not really is a mind game answer. LOL. But I'll take that.
Me: Why you wanna know?
Girl: Because I want to know
Me: A mind game answer... haha that's funny
Girl: hahaha but it's true
Me: If this "concert adventure" were a date, would you still go or not??
Girl: hahaha wat the hell
Me: I am just askin
Girl: (after about a minute) I don't know. That's why it's taken me so long to give you an answer. And you can't get more honest than that so ha
Me: I really wanna go to the concert whether it's a date or not cuz i am a big fan of _____'s music (Quite frankly though, I would love to spend some romantic time with you)
Girl: right
Me: Last semester I went to most of the concerts alone because people always had excuses.
Girl: aww. In that case I'll give you some company for once
We are going to the concert for sure, but now I wonder if she's really into me or not. Had I said yes when she asked me the question, would she have disagreed to go to the concert? Ladies, what do you think?