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    omg my friend is way over her head

    my friend is sleeping around with guys. she even called herself a whore when she said, "im a whore for sleeping with all these guys." but she keeps doing so even after saying that she is ashamed of herself. i dont know what to say to her because i dont want her to get mad. but i feel so bad for not knowing what to do.

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    Get her a chastity belt.

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    Seems like she needs to hear that she's a whore. Tell her: 'Sorry,but it's true,.You're a whore and You're not doing anything about it, don't be surprised that people will call you and treat you this way.'

    Maybe she'll wake up if her best friend tells her that. Some people need such slap on the face.Say that You are her friend and You're not insulting her, You're just stating the truth.She may get upset but if she's smart enough she'll realize it's truth and will try to change.
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    Maybe she is not ashamed of being a whore. But personally, I find her behaviour disgusting.

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    some people just can't or won't break bad habits.

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    Send her some links to pictures of people with herpes sores. That should scare her straight.
    “Inside every cynical person, there is a disappointed idealist”--George Carlin

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    ^^^ that didn't work for me... oops. errr... i mean j/k.

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    Some people enjoy having multiple sexual partners...its risky but if thats what they enjoy then I guess I wouldn't say anything...maybe she likes being a whore...I know some women who have gotten off being treated like a whore so maybe thats what does it for her.

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    Get her on Craigslist.

    "What you really fear is inside yourself. You fear your own power.
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    Whores get paid. She's not a whore.

    I think it is very sad that she is learning to associate sex with feelings of shame. She must be really desperate for a male to love her. How old is she?
    Relax... I'll need some information first. Just the basic facts - can you show me where it hurts?

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    Quote Originally Posted by vashti View Post
    Whores get paid. She's not a whore.
    WAIT! - whore is a term used today by my generation to describe an overly promiscuous person. Whore is synonymous with tramp and other lovely adjectives.

    She's a whore, but I think we all are to some degree at some point.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Cbrider View Post
    WAIT! - whore is a term used today by my generation to describe an overly promiscuous person. Whore is synonymous with tramp and other lovely adjectives.

    She's a whore, but I think we all are to some degree at some point.
    In my world, whores get paid. Sluts and tramps don't.
    Relax... I'll need some information first. Just the basic facts - can you show me where it hurts?

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    Quote Originally Posted by vashti View Post
    In my world, whores get paid. Sluts and tramps don't.
    At least we agree that "nice girl with good values" isn't a way we describe her, right?

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    Yeah, I guess. but I still feel sorry for her.
    Relax... I'll need some information first. Just the basic facts - can you show me where it hurts?

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    She will probably need to learn the hard way.
    Don't cry, don't regret and don't blame
    Weak find the whip, willing find freedom
    Towards the sun, carry your name
    In warm hands you are given
    Ask the wind for the way
    Uncertainty's gone, your path will unravel
    Accept all as it is and do not blame
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