I am one big blind guy

[surfbos]

so here's what happened, i want to know your opinions on whether she likes me.
the situation is that i asked if i can visit her over the weekend. she said yes. and she suggested that i can sleep over at her place. so i went to meet her, we hugged. then we went shopping at ikea for couches, because she just moved in and doesn't have a couch. so we spent the afternoon at ikea. then at her home, she asked me to help her put together a mirror and some wall accessories she bought at ikea.
at night, i slept in the living room, but since she doesn't have a couch, she provided me a sleeping bag.
in the morning, we read the sunday paper, watch cnn, and saw a movie in the afternoon.

I'm blind, so i dont' know if she likes me.

[Fishy]

Flirt some, you'll fine out.

[Bligh]

No sex = no like.

Sorry buddy.

[Nameless18]

I dont see any signs of flirting my friend.. more like friendship. Perhaps if you flirt with her a little, you'll get the sign.

[Heddy]

Um Bligh that's not necessarily true.

[MVPlaya]

I didn't read your post, just saw this:

so i dont' know if she likes me.

Who gives a ****? Seriously?

Make a move or stand at the sidelines while someone else gets her.

[kanzaki]

well....

1) Ask he / make a move and u will find out

or

2) Dun do anything and keep on wondering "what if this and what if that" for the rest of your life

[Prodigal]

Kanzaki makes a great point. I've faced this problem too many times. I've always been the one to wonder "Does this girl like me, or not?". It's hard not to wonder about it, but I would try my hardest not to wonder for too long. Thinking about it too much just blows your chances. Why? Thinking about it makes you more scared to make a move. If she does like you, you would never ask... and the chance will slip away. If you like her... well, just try to make a move. Try to gather your courage. Here's my motto. Most people say its better to be "safe than sorry". Me... well, I try to think it's better to be "sorry than to regret". Sure, it hurts a lot to be rejected... but wondering about it forever is much worse. MUCH worse. The pain is deep, and it takes a long time to heal. And trust me. I know. So, just go for it. That is, if you have evaluated your own feelings for her.

[kanzaki]

well, i would not be suprise if i c u starting a thread titled

"i should have done it"

[MVPlaya]

It hurts a lot to be rejected...

Actually it doesn't. There's 3 billion women out there, you really think you can realistically have all 3 billion want you? You will always have women who will reject you for whatever reason, its not a reflection of who you are.

Besides, you're already "rejected/accepted" before you even make a move, so in reality, all you're doing is rejecting yourself... you're sticking your head in the sand to pretend there's nothing really going on.


Bottomline: grow nuts, stop caring about what random girls think.

[kanzaki]

MVP is right u know. U will soon b numb bout it

[KaWaiiSkYe]

Have fun! LOL!