I need an expert opinion.. please help..

[cerberus]

i met a girl in a forum,
she's nice, sweet, and intelligent.
hmmm our age were a bit.. far.. she's 20 and i'm 30
she know's that i am married
of course... i told her, i'm not a good liar
and i hateee liar's
i have no intentions of flirting and to be in love,
coz i am not looking,
just nothing to do.. soooo i join the forum,
after a couple of months, im starting to miss her
i dunno why, but every time, every day
i started to look for her,
i never got her cell no, why? at first i had no intentions for her..
i never even bother asking her to meet at cam,
and she even call me daddy
but now... i know deep inside of me
i started to got a crush on her
so i told her
but... i did not ask for anything in return???
i did not ask her if i got the chance??
i did not ask her will she be mine??
i just told her how i feel for her then
she got mad.. of course.... but the thing is,
why??.. i did not do anything wrong?? did i?
is it bad to tell the person that you got a crush on her
and you think that you are starting to fall for her.?????
i dunno what immoral thing that i had done
i just told her but did not expect anything in return for her to say back,
coz i know that it is not a right thing to do, i just don't want to keep it
i dont want to keep a burden in my heart
so i express it..

please give me advice on this one,... please anyone
i need an expert opinion..
by the way
i thank you in advace

[sookie6]

You did not want to keep the burden so you shared. Now what? do you think she'll be happy to hear a married man is interested in her.

Thank gog 20 years old girls nowadays know better than getting involved with a married man.

They hear this kinda stories everyday...she probably has a great social life, great prospects, tons of admirers...do you think she needs the hassle of a married man?

If you want honesty maybe you should rethink your relationship with your wife...this is the area you should focus on...

I don't think men who are in a commited relationship should be getting personal with girls on forums...it's risky and borderline cheating...

[cerberus]

it's risky and borderline cheating...

thanks sookie... but do you really think it is cheating??? goshhh... i am really out of my mind, ^_____^ you blow my mind sookie haha^^
please take note..
i did not.. propose to her....in any kind or matter....... i just.. told her hoe i feel and then poofss im gone
just like blown in the wind.....
so you mean to say that
a man who only speaks of love but doesn't show the affection is cheating?

please thanks again for a prompt reply..

[sookie6]

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so you mean to say that
a man who only speaks of love but doesn't show the affection is cheating?

please thanks again for a prompt reply..

Well I am sure you know the answer to this question yourself.

Why don't you now go and ask your wife her opinion on the whole story?

I am not sure on which planet you're on but yes what you did is emotional cheating which is in the mind of the majority of people as bad or even worse than a casual ****...

The fact that another woman was on your mind probably when sharing time with your wife...yes this is cheating...

How would you feel if your wife did the exact thing as you did?

[cerberus]

I am not a cheater.....
i just fell, because she is soooooo sweet
ok that it .. enough... that why i never hang out there anymore.
hmmppp.....

ok emotional cheating huh^^
that answers my question...
hahahaha
by the way ,,. sookie i'm "quite" sure im still on earth
nyahahaha
thanks .....


i can now ask the modertor to close this thread to avoid further spamming

[dewilliams2]

Sorry but I don't think anybody is gonna tell you your in the right...if you wanta be with this girl then you should have told your wife and left her as shitty as that is...or if I had been you I would have left the forum as soon as I realized what was happening...

Not tryin to spam you...just givin my honest opinion....you didn't cheat but your getting to a point where your on the one yard line and just waitin for your fullback to get in to punch it across the line...its getting close.