condoms

[Mellita]

dont use the condom

That was a genius statement!!

Have her put it on like suggested, it can be done any number of ways if ya know what I mean.

[Frebbiezadyke]

Do you actually serve a purpose in this forum? Didn't think so.

yeah i serve the same purpose as u which is to give MY opinion and advice on topics in which bring up....looks like im serving my purpose very well

[blue]

ahh jeez here we go again

[Frebbiezadyke]

i know ::makes shocked face:: they always pick on the fat girl lol

[PoetsRevenge84]

yeah i serve the same purpose as u which is to give MY opinion and advice on topics in which bring up....looks like im serving my purpose very well

At least my opinions are educated and not coming from a 14/15 year old. ::rolls eyes:: That was a guess on your age. Guarenteed I'm very close. You can always spot the babies of a forum from a mile away.

[Steve2004]

i know ::makes shocked face:: they always pick on the fat girl lol

I'm sure none of us knew that you were fat. So that was just retarded.

And telling a man to have unprotected sex with his girlfriend is not good advice. I know that a forum is for voicing opinions. But that was just dumb.

dont use the condom

Most of our posts have some logic. That didn't

[Sine-Nomine]

At least my opinions are educated and not coming from a 14/15 year old. ::rolls eyes:: That was a guess on your age. Guarenteed I'm very close. You can always spot the babies of a forum from a mile away.

No offense to you Poet, your estimation is correct on her age, but for such an intelligent woman your usage of stereotypes makes you sound ignorant.

I'm 16, and I believe my opinions to be well thought out and educated. Are you insinuating that since we are young we are therefore lacking the education to form an intelligent opinion? If so, I beg to differ.

Age makes little matter, it's the person that makes it so.

In Frebbie's case however, you are completely correct in the retarded opinions coming from her. But next time, please, don't limit the uneducated opinions to strictly an age group. Thanks!

-Shea

[blue]

uneducated opinions can be long to anyone any age, agreed.

[PoetsRevenge84]

Most of our posts have some logic. That didn't

hahaha... Thanks Steve. Nicely put. I love putting people in their place. It makes me feel so warm and mushy on the inside. lol

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No offense to you Poet, your estimation is correct on her age, but for such an intelligent woman your usage of stereotypes makes you sound ignorant.

I'm 16, and I believe my opinions to be well thought out and educated. Are you insinuating that since we are young we are therefore lacking the education to form an intelligent opinion? If so, I beg to differ.

Age makes little matter, it's the person that makes it so.

In Frebbie's case however, you are completely correct in the retarded opinions coming from her. But next time, please, don't limit the uneducated opinions to strictly an age group. Thanks!

-Shea

I completely agree and I really am sorry for being so general. I was tired and making a well thought out come back was not within my grasp. I do realize that age doesn't determine maturity. Hell, I'm dating someone who is younger than me. He's living proof. Anyways, again, I am sorry for the general statement. I'll choose my words more carefully next time when I am mocking the most ignorant member of the forum here (aka Frebbie).

[sleepy]

i think the general idea is to critique the thought, not the poster. this is standard practice in most forums i have seen?

so, i agree having unprotected sex is reckless and a dangerous mistake. i think it is best to focus on the mistaken advice rather than introducing any personal conflict, as that just confuses and inflames the issue.

i'm going to assume in advance i will likely be uneducated on some topics that come up; i know very little about learning disorders, for example, and might make mistakes in how i talk about them. i hope when that happens, when i goof, someone will just correct me in an impersonal way.
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anyway, for the first poster: my first b/f once had this problem too. it was psychological for him - he was raised catholic and for some reason was more disconcerted by the condom than by the pre-marital sex. here's what we did:

1. i just would not sleep with him until he sorted it out. not in a bitchy way, just in a firm and clear way.

2. this is going to sound odd - he just wrote about condoms; about what they represented to him and why. he also saw them as a barrior to intimacy; an extended pause in the 'action'. we fixed this by having me go down on him while he had the condom on.

3. we made condoms more fun - they have all kinds of <still safe> fun novelty condoms, and somehow they just lightened the mood. sex was then more about fun than performance, and this helped a *lot.* we also made kind of a study of the history of contraception; it's pretty cool.

4. finally, know you are doing a great thing by using that condom. lots of women are effected aversely by the pill/iuds, so it's really damn cool that you are so responsible. you've got the makings of a great lover, stud!

good luck! let us know how it goes!

[Steve2004]

you've got the makings of a great lover, stud!

all because he used a condom. how does this make the boys feel? where a condom, get the girl's praises.

[Frebbiezadyke]

so basically everyone agreed with me that this IS a forum where i am aloud to express my feelings and opions on the amtter weather it is "retarted" or not is UR opinon which of course is also aloud
but next time u want to call someone stupid darlings understand who u are talking to
and steve babe the commment where i said peopel always blame the fat chick was a joke directed to blue not a litural statement

[sleepy]

lol - i'm just easily delighted by forethought.

[blue]

oh wait ahh nevermind !!!! have a good nite everyone...

[Steve2004]

so basically everyone agreed with me that this IS a forum where i am aloud to express my feelings

No one said you couldn't. And no one said they disagreed with you.

but next time u want to call someone stupid darlings understand who u are talking to

I'm sorry darling but i'm having trouble locating where someone actually called you stupid. so if you could just find that for me..that would be great.

and steve babe the commment where i said peopel always blame the fat chick was a joke directed to blue not a litural statement

Ma bad..but while i'm on my rampage of constructively criticizing, may i just tell you. The joke wasn't funny.