Why do some people think?

[tommy123]

According to the standards of society I am only allowed to have 15 or less girlfriends at a time. Why is it if I go over this I am looked down upon?

[Gribble]

At a time. Jesus ****ing Christ, man, how do you afford them all and how do you keep up?

[tommy123]

It's complicated to explain really...

But why does society hold such strange views and feel the need to judge me?

[Spring Haze]

What are you babbling on about. Your chosen country is the U.S. where such "standards" do not exist.

[IndiReloaded]

I thought the limit was increased recently to 25... get with the times, man.

[all alone]

What are you babbling on about. Your chosen country is the U.S. where such "standards" do not exist.

you might want to double check Utah.. lol

[VincenzoG91]

Tommy, you should contact the CDC. They've been looking for you for a long time.

[Bumble_bee]

society shouldn't give a crap, as long as your not spreading STD love around....


How do YOU feel about chicks who have 15+ guys at one time.....

[tommy123]

Tommy, you should contact the CDC. They've been looking for you for a long time.

No diseases here my friend.

How do YOU feel about chicks who have 15+ guys at one time.....

I would think of them no differently than anyone else.

you might want to double check Utah.. lol

That's not love, that's a weird religious thing that should be banned

I thought the limit was increased recently to 25... get with the times, man.

Has it?



I suppose the kind of advice I am looking for is how can I show people that I'm not some greedy pimp, partaker in some weird religious thing, or just some dirty crazy pervert. I am a kind and intelligent person, anyone who knows me knows this, but they always think me strange for my way of life. I know I shouldn't let what other people think bother me, but it's not just a few people, it's basically everyone that I know.

Thanks for your responses so far everyone

[Lulu]

Although I am FAR from perfect- I would feel like I was giving a piece of my soul away in each of these casual encounters. I haven't been with many men- not even a handful- two I do regret because I never really felt much for them, although at the time I thought I did- or would eventually. The other two I did love. How will you ever find anyone special- you'll just view everyone as a commodity. There are SOULS in (most) bodies- people don't seem to value their own too much these days- let alone others. I prefer to hold out for that someone special- I've seen far too many jaded, washed up people that only see it as sex- nothing more. I think it should be more important than that.

[tommy123]

They are all that "someone special" to me. I'm not just some 'man whore' who goes out and has casual sex, we are all close together, and I'm not just some super horny pervert. It's not all just sex, it is a normal relationship(s) just like any other. I view monogamy as an ancient ritual that should have no bearing on my modern life.

What people don't understand is that it's the exact same as two person relationship, but only with more people.



Oh, also, to clarify, the number 15 was just an attention getting hyperbole, in case anyone took it literally.

[Peter Pry]

That's not love, that's a weird religious thing that should be banned

So, you want society to recognize your nontraditional relationship style while simultaneously advocating the forced eradication of another? Grow up and quit yer whinin'.

[tommy123]

So, you want society to recognize your nontraditional relationship style while simultaneously advocating the forced eradication of another?

Nontraditional? Polygamy is probably the most common type of relationship throught history. The other is a religious ritual, it has nothing to do with love. People being forced against their will to do something is bad, at least in my opinion.

My Dear friend, have ever thought about the feelings of all these girls or women? Do you have any feelings for them too?. My candid opinion is that you get serious with a responsible lady and you will discover what it means to be really in love, instead of being going for what I will tag 'experiments'

Of course I care about their feelings, as I said before, I'm not some pimp or something, I am in a real loving relationship with all of the women I am with. Just like any relationship between two people, they are free to break up with me and find another man as they please; I'm not forcing them to be with me. I am serious with them, and they are all responsible. I really am in love, with every single one, I would never experiment with people emotionally in such a serious matter as love.

[tufty]

what utter bollox - you dont know hte meaning of the word 'love' if you say you love each and every one of them - get a grip ffs

men like you really annoy me - you belittle the meaning of the word 'relationship'.

Try giving to ONE woman and ONE woman only - then and only then can u assume to know what way of life is better. We can't all be fricken wrong now can we?

pfft

[Coco]

Because you're a troll.