Hitting a person

[Sonrisa]

My guyfriend has complained to me that his wife hit him. And I guess he was looking for emotional support from me, ha ha. So I called him a pussy and told him that it was well deserving, and if it I was his wife I'd most likely kill him.
What would you do?

[doppelgaenger]

Hitting is so childish. It just shows that you're mind is not developed.

[vashti]

Actually, it isn't all that unusual for a female to be physically violent. I had a patient punch her husband right in the mouth, in front of me AND her kid who was around 12. I filed a report with a social worker. I disapprove of all physical violence.

I think men have it a bit unfair, though. If your friend were a woman, I bet you'd have reacted differently... he is just supposed to "man up" about it.

[Doc Durian]

What about the guy who recently went to court because his wife glued his willy to his body. (cheating).

Judge told him he brought it in himself while admitting that two standards exist, male justice and female justice but he wasn't apologizing for it when he basically let her go.

The judge should have given him a free crazy glue your wife's nipples get out of jail free card.

[Sonrisa]

well the story was that she went through his phone and found sexual messages going back and forth with another female. they have 3 kids and both are my age.

[vashti]

That makes him rather unsympathetic...

[Sonrisa]

i feel that he is....mentally ill

[Doc Durian]

It's a mega double standard. If he glued her together, abused her while she was restrained and wearing a hood, he'd be in jail and feminist groups jumping up and down about justice served.

[Illusional]

if i were your friend, then i'd hit her back.. i don't when my chick gives me a hard time or verbally abuses me because she's angry, BUT if she thinks that i won't hit her back because she's my gf, then f*ck that. it will only get worse in time and he's going to have to put down his foot now, or it'll only worsen.

raverboy

[Doc Durian]

Wasn't I in the named scenario.

I have no issues with striking a female if the situation warrants it. I will try to walk away, but if I'm trapped or at a serious disadvantage I do what is required.. the same way I deal with aggressive males.

[Tallgeese]

A gentleman should never hit a woman. EVER!!! The physical wounds will just heal themselves. If you want to put your foot down, then call her names like "fat" or "Ms. Piggy." Emotional wounds run deeper and take much longer to recover from. That will teach her a lesson.

[Doc Durian]

I don't cop physical abuse from anyone, Tallgeese. Either I walk away from the situation or eliminate the aggressor, then walk away if I'm cornered.

[Mish]

My guyfriend has complained to me that his wife hit him. And I guess he was looking for emotional support from me, ha ha. So I called him a pussy and told him that it was well deserving, and if it I was his wife I'd most likely kill him.
What would you do?

I would tell them to get a divorce so they don't subject their children to an abusive household.

[doppelgaenger]

Dude, never *ever* call your woman fat or Ms. Piggy. Not only is that lame and childish, but you will be reminded of it for the rest of your life.

[Gribble]

I find a good fight to be more pleasurable than good sex, honestly. More memorable, too. I can recount blow for blow every single boxing match I've ever been in from years ago, and the memory alone is enough to get my heart pounding and my adrenaline flowing. Nothing excites me more than a spot of violence. Nothing, not even a come-hither look from a beautiful woman fills me with the same rush I get from a fight. 'Course I'm not talking about spousal abuse and all that crap.