Meeting up

[lhn]

So, this forum has been around a while and seen many faces come and go...

Some of you have 10k+ posts

Have any of you ever met up? Talked on the phone? Become good friends outside of LF?

[Lipp]

Does dialling the number and breathing heavily (and suggestively) into the mouthpiece before hanging up count?

[AdminOnline]

Does dialling the number and breathing heavily (and suggestively) into the mouthpiece before hanging up count?

lol..

[sookie6]

I am usually a very private person.
I'd be worried that after I have met someone in real life I'd become less open about private stuff.
And I like it here because I feel I can talk about everything!

But I can't deny that it is very possible to develop a soul mate type of relationship on this forum and yes in that case I would at some point like to meet the person!

[lhn]

Does dialling the number and breathing heavily (and suggestively) into the mouthpiece before hanging up count?

Haha brilliant! Really made me laugh!

But seriously... stop doing it. It scares the crap out of me!

[lhn]

@ Sookie... Good reply.

So you believe in soul mates then?

[sookie6]

@ Sookie... Good reply.

So you believe in soul mates then?

Yes I do and I also believe that a soulmate is not necesarily a lover. I have had instances (a few) of friendships in my life where there was instant connection and trust.

[lhn]

Hmmm... I'm completely undecided on this issue. Its a complicated one and one I would want to think about for a while longer. A soulmate not being a lover is a very good point though and something I hadn't really considered but certainly not something I would write-off by any means!

I was very willing to give my trust to people until recently. Now I'm making sure to hold back but not in a bitter way. Just in a 'I'm a little bit older and a little bit wiser' type way. A healthy decision I think.

I can think of three people I had an instant connection with. 2 of which are male friends and the other is my ex... hmmmm... fickle?

[sookie6]

Now I'm making sure to hold back but not in a bitter way. Just in a 'I'm a little bit older and a little bit wiser' type way. A healthy decision I think.

Yes holding back a little is always good. And as you say it's part of growing up.

Am curious to know now if there is such a thing as an LF couple. 2 people who met on the site and fell in love in real life.

I'm pretty sure I saw a post on this but can't remember who that was!

It'd be nice to hear from them if they feel like talking about it!

[Petit Papillon]

Yes holding back a little is always good. And as you say it's part of growing up.

Am curious to know now if there is such a thing as an LF couple. 2 people who met on the site and fell in love in real life.

I'm pretty sure I saw a post on this but can't remember who that was!

It'd be nice to hear from them if they feel like talking about it!

It's Dopp and Citycat

[lhn]

Is that for real PP or are u stirring up trouble? lol :p

[Petit Papillon]

Why would I? Ask Dopp.

[qwertz]

i hope to god i dont get to 10,000 posts, i'd like to think i will be 'fixed' by then (no offence to those that have that many!!)

[misombra]

i've met a few members. i just talked to giga on the phone last night. and i met her irl a couple times. she's the closest member to me. i met nomas and artyemi. they never come around here anymore unfortunately. i was pretty close to meeting up with starbuck over the summer but it never worked out.

[Gigabitch]

A couple of posters stayed at my house last summer. It was fun. Almost as much fun as drinking beer with Misombra and listening to her and my husband go off about how much they hate cops.