After Having Sex...

[erik]

First of all, greetings everyone, I'm "erik" a 24 year old Canadians male. Good to be here

My question is simply this, after you have sex with a girl for the first time, what is a reasonable amount of contact the two of you should have in the days following this encounter?

I went out with this gorgeous brunette on Friday, it started with coffee and ended up on a random street with us having sex in the back of her car. Everything was fine, we talked for about a half hour after as well and we were both quite positive about meeting again (and having sex again). However, its two days later (okay, 1.5) and the only contact we've had has been through some random text messages. I've tried calling her once, she may have called me once, but I was busy and the reply to texts take hours.

Is this normal? What generally happens in the folowing days after having sex for the first time? Keep in mind she lives about 45 km away from myself

[Petit Papillon]

Mmm how romantic
Sorry ,but it's very rare that a relationship ,that started with the sex on the backsit of a car ,will last long. Well if she won't contact You, forget her and NEXT.

[erik]

Its like that is it?

I have no plans on getting into a serious relationship, but I would like to see her some more, at least be friends (with benefits god willing). Is it destined to end from here?

[erik]

coincidence, haha

were chatting online right now. Talking about meeting this week

[Petit Papillon]

Oh so maybe You still have the chance to pork her .Maybe next time in some 'more comfortable' place ,lol.

[erik]

Oh so maybe You still have the chance to pork her .Maybe next time in some 'more comfortable' place ,lol.

lol, so I guess your not gung-ho about first date sex eh? We talked for about two hours on the phone the night before, there was a connection between us, we enjoyed eachothers company

[Petit Papillon]

Normally I think it's dirty and something that just a slut would do, but there are some circumstances where I don't mind

[starbuck]

I could probably answer this question for a date, but for random car sex I'm not really sure what the rules are.

Where's the random car sex expert?

[lastwish]

If she is willing to have sex the first date, she isn't serious about you in the first place. Expect things to be very casual. She might text you if she feel like it. And probably expect you to feel the same.

[Paul Cho]

If I met a girl, and hours later had sex with her in her car, why would I want to get in touch with her days later?





Paul Cho

[tufty]

i dont know paul, maybe to have sex with her? duh

[Paul Cho]

i dont know paul, maybe to have sex with her? duh

If a girl is that easy, chances are she's been that easy to others. I prefer more discreet girls to spend my valuable time with.


Paul " Don't go chasing waterfalls " Cho

[tufty]

i agree paul but i get the feeling this poster is out for a jump, rather than a relationship - some people just want to get down and dirty without any emotions getting involved - you on the other hand need to get to know the person a little before dipping ur wick - an admirable quality

[Paul Cho]

you on the other hand need to get to know the person a little before dipping ur wick - an admirable quality

And I can palm a basketball.


Paul Cho

[tufty]

i can palm a basketball - i just cant run with it or shoot it - ohhh the shame!