You are too sensitive, i dont see the problem if he looks and doesnt touch. Get over it.
Life is not measured by the number of breaths we take, but by the moments that take our breath away.
I honest to God don't notice other men at all. My celeb crush was in the same club as us a few weeks ago but I couldn't keep my hands or attention off my bf long enough to go meet him. I really couldn't care less. Its pretty romantic, and it would be nice if men could return the favor (the complete mental commitment). I really like Wonder and Shheadz for saying that despite the fact that they are men, when they are in love, they don't notice other females. Thats all I want.
Elle Boogie
I hate to say it but what you need is the testimony of a man who has been married happily for 20 years and has never looked at any other woman.
Everyone has experienced the 'I am only into you' feeling that goes with the honey moon period.
What you really want to know is what really happens after that?
Sorry it's just life...ain't perfect!
They don't notice...as much.
You role as a female is to try to garner as much attention from a prized male as possible so as to coerce him into pumping as much semen into your vagina as possible. However, there are many other women out there looking to do the same, and fortunately for men, they are looking to oblige women and pump as much semen into as many vaginas as possible.
So really, you're not at odds with men, you're at odds with other women, who are sexual competition for your man's cock and balls.
Also, I might add, another female problem you need to recognize is your need to be "understood". You're looking for validation on this forum. You're not looking for a solution, you're not looking to help yourself in any way. Like many females you want to feel like you've been heard, understood, and empathized with so you can move on with your life until tomorrow, at which point the cycle will start all over again.
What everyone here is trying to provide you is logic, to actually assist you in overcoming your insecurity problem. But once again, logic is antithesis of emotion, and you clearly thrive off your emotions. So I'm not sure if this thread will honestly do you any good unless you can make a some changes on your outlook on life.
Elle_Boogie says:
"But I guess thats too advanced or evolved for monkeys---*cough*---I mean men."
yeah.. us "monkeys" that built civilizations, explored the world, discovered almost every major scientific breakthrough, and put humans on the moon. <rolls eyes>
I don't understand how 'some' guys hate women so much... Women who bring 'those' men to this world. They must be some kind of ungratefull assholes
I wazzzz here
They have massive mommy issues, just like women who hate men have massive daddy issues.
I think everyone should just grow up and get over it.
Spammer Spanker
Pettit-Papillon says:
"I don't understand how 'some' guys hate women so much... Women who bring 'those' men to this world. They must be some kind of ungratefull assholes"
who here hates men?
edit: who here hates *women? my bad, lol
Last edited by NeoSeminole; 20-01-10 at 06:49 AM.
lol Awww you want me to spank Neo for you? Hahaha. Look Hun, I know how you feel but it's nothing to get this stressed out over. I used to feel that way too. "Am I not good enough. Why do boys do this and that." Ahhh... eventually I grew up. Someday you will too.
Obviously you came to vent and get it out. Good job. I don't think a woman gets sheer joy and says, "I'm so glad my man fantasizes about having sex with other women." But I think a lot of women know that boys will be boys and there is nothing you can do about it. This is one of those things where you grow out of it and learn to be secure with yourself.
coco - I thought you were banned per your own request?
Relax... I'll need some information first. Just the basic facts - can you show me where it hurts?
I believe we're getting off topic.
Pettit-Papillon says:
"Eee, You don't talk about me, right? Cause I looove men. Especially my bf"
my mistake. I meant to ask "who here hates women?"