Straight Up: Am I Ugly?

[ChristianonLI]

That's all I really want to know. I have no skill with women. I never have. I stayed so attached to my wife even after the end of the marriage simply for the fact I don't honestly believe it is possible for me to find anyone else. So I'm providing a link to my okcupid.com profile that has some pictures of me and any women out there I'd like your honest opinions on what I look like and if you think I am in any way, shape or form an attractive man. Just lay it to me straight, don't sugar coat.

By the way, I was inspired to do this by some other guy's thread who posted some pictures of himself and the replies seemed honest enough to give me confidence I'll get real opinions here and no trolling or deliberately nasty comments. Of course, if I really am as butt ass ugly as I suspect, that honesty could very well appear as trolling. But we'll see what happens.

So have at me!

Ok we'll try this, a photobucket link to me in my tux on my wedding day.

[url]http://s357.photobucket.com/albums/oo15/TavardeWoW/?action=view&current=5329_1210403222740_1308521283 _30608.jpg[/url]

[ecojeanne]

no you're not ugly but you do need to lose a bit of weight

[Junket]

I'd say just get rid of the hair all together, or keep it really really short.

[kai]

Weight is the only problem here.

[IndiReloaded]

Lose some weight, get a hair piece. Do you have money? That helps.

[Spring Haze]

You're not ugly in the least, but I can't say you're attractive [to me], either.

[Luca]

I don' t think you are ugly.

I disagree about the hair piece. I can always tell when men are wearing them and I think it makes them look insecure. I have no problem with bald and confident.

Are you using wedding pictures in your dating profile? That seems like it could be bad mojo, or open up a can or worms if someone you have just started talking to online asks where your picture is from.

[shheadz]

You do need to lose some weight buddy. Your whole face will slim down if you do, which will very definitely change your physical appearance. Plus a shaved head will look better on a muscular body.

[ChristianonLI]

To address some of the things said:

No, not using that photo or any wedding photos on dating profiles.

I've always been a bit heavy but since that picture was taken I've lost about 20 pounds and slimmed down slightly.

Yea I keep my hair short most of the time, but I would rather not shave it all off completely, that look doesn't work well for me at all.

And thank you for the honest replies.

[sookie6]

Yes go for the altogether bald look!
Lose a bit of weight!
Dress trendy and sexy. Even if it needs injecting a bit of money in a wardrobe make over. Call a profesionnal image adviser. This could change your life.

Women like a man who dresses well.

Your best features. You have got beautiful skin and fine face features.
Losing weight/ working out/maybe some trendy glasses and you will catch our eye!!!

How old are you?

[ChristianonLI]

I am 30, will be 31 in a few weeks. And thanks for the compliments

[PUN-ish]

Take care of your spirit and everything else will come naturally. Don't worry.
And hey, lose weight only if you want and/or it is doing something to your health.
Every other reason is superficial and is not worth your time.

Have fun, life is beautiful.

[cmacattack1]

Take down the World of Warcraft pictures too. You've been cutting back on gameplay logged haven't you?

[ChristianonLI]

Oh yea, those pictures on photobucket are almost all very old and I hardly play anymore. I didn't even think they would be accessible through the link lol.

[Indignant]

I say go bald.