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    Mixed Signals!??

    My GF of 4 years broke up with me a week and a half ago. the week I was going to ask her to marry me (hell we looked at rings together last month - she even picked one out that i bought later). Says I am the perfect guy but she is having problems with sexual attraction. Last nite we went to Pizza for her brothers b-day with her dad and mom too. I am 39 she is 27 by the way. At the table she puts her head on my shoulder, rubs against me and puts her arms around me. and then i dropped her off at her house and we gave each other some lite kisses. what does this all mean???

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    It means she cares deeply for you but you don't make her feel like she wants to rip your clothes off and inhale your boner. She craves that. She took the chance that she will find another great guy plus that.

    Notice I said another. You are a great guy maybe just not her cup of tea physically.

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    That she doesn't want to get married. And that you need to lose weight.
    I gave you my heart
    I gave you my soul
    Now I'm just another number
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    What if her parents are pressuring her not to marry you cuz of the age difference. Her parents may feel that you two should be of closer age to get married
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    if she wants someone else, then why put your arms around me??

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    Probably out of comfort, you guys were together for 4 years so she probably still feels some affection towards you. I'd keep your distance, don't let her play hot and cold with you. Find someone who wants to ride that pony.
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    Quote Originally Posted by koze499 View Post
    if she wants someone else, then why put your arms around me??
    who the hell said anything about her wanting someone else?

    if you're talking about my post read it again. she cares deeply for you and when someone cares deeply (despite sexual attraction) for another person affection is typically shown.

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