Hmm, I always liked doing it for my ex, I was doing it within two weeks of hanging out with her, doing that whole hot and heavy phase. I thought she enjoyed it, but once we started having sex, I would always want to go down and she would always stop me and want sex. Two minutes of sex and she would be like "Phew I'm all set, you can finish". I guess I'm wondering if I'm not as good as I thought? And she never really wanted to give me BJ's, maybe a handful, I think I asked her once just to be different and "in control" because I have never asked her before. Apparently she's happy with just sex and not mutual oral.
Also makes me wonder if that is what makes the big ones happen, is the connection you have with the guy. When we first started having sex I don't think she was impressed. As we continued to date, she was getting off in a couple minutes saying "Okay I'm done, I can't go any more". I'm not huge or skilled by any stretch of the imagination. Maybe all of her priors were drunk hookups?
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