I bet Gribble would understand dance if it were performed by a Stripper and Exotic Dancer. Or some hot chick half naked on TV shaking it fast.
I guess I'd be the first to declare not dancing as a dealbreaker. Like many I love to dance, I have been since I was 3. Naturally, I'm pretty good and enjoy all forms.
I would like my bf to dance with me. Not all the time, I don't even require much skill at all. Just enjoy watching, moving and touching me and I'm good. Some sexy grinding is excellent foreplay. Some sultry salsa makes me feel like a sexy woman (which I later use in bed, on him). And lastly, I just enjoy it much like how men enjoy a good game of fill-in-the-blank-sport.
Definitely not a dealbreaker. I hate club dancing/grinding/dirty dancing. I feel SO awkward.
But a guy who can get out and 2-step to a live band - that is some fun shit.
I could care less, as long as he is good in bed, I won't mind dancing with his buddies.
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Except for girl68 there, the consensus still seems to be that it's not a deal breaker, but it's great if your guy does dance. Personally I'm a pretty good dancer, but I have to be in the right kind of mood. If I'm not in that mood, then I'm sitting at the bar while she dances with her girlfriends.
Growing up in an old Military family, I was expected to be aware of the social graces. Dad handled the work ethic, the discipline, and the sports, Mom taught us which fork to use, how to behave in social gatherings, etc. For the record I enjoy dancing a lot. It's an intimate as well as a public display of affection and interest.
I'm the exception! whoohoo. I guess I'm lucky my bf does exactly what needs to be done for me to keep sticking around.
Lol, shaggability skills...classic.
Lol, i had this happen when i was dancing a few weeks ago..i could feel something poking my bum..turned round to see a guy dancing behind me with a boner!! It was gross. What a sleaze, i nearly punched him!
Im not too bothered whether he can dance or not, if he doesnt, then i'll just dance with my girl friends.
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When I was a kid I was vehemently against dancing. My parents wanted to teach me so I'd be able to go to school dances and the like. I refused so strongly I was punished for it.
It wasn't really dance I was against. It was tradition and ceremony. I'm slightly more tolerant now. If I see a hot chick shaking what she's got on the dance floor that doesn't mean I want to stand there and undulate with her. I want to **** her.
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i once dated a guy who liked to dance salsa and i had so much fun with him. his body was nice and he had longish hair. my gawd that man was so hot. i took advantage of his dance skills all the time. we were always out at the club dancing.
i love dancing. it makes me feel free. if a man can move you to a rhythm it's highly pleasing.
baby ya hustle. but me i hustle harder.
I dance in silly fashions and even though it's not serious at all, my g/f really loves it.
Anything that involves shaking of the ass or thrusting of the hips and she's pretty much ready to be laid.
Dancing is my life...if they wanna sit at the bar and throw back some drinks, they better be prepared to watch me dancing with another guy.
I'm okay if they wanna sit at the bar...for a couple minutes. But I'm not going there to sit on my ass all day. I'm going there to dance and by golly I'm gonna dance.
I don't mean the club/grinding shit that people call dancing either. If a guy knows his way around a country dance floor or a ballroom/latin dance floor, it's a huge turn on to me!
besides, ya know the sayin' a guy who can move on the dance floor sure as hell can move other places too!!!
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I am NOT a good dancer for the most part, but being able to act silly is NOT a turn off most times. Who cares what Joe Blow standing on the side of the dance floor pointing thinks. You aren't after his dick and surely are not trying to attract it.
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