As the title says... I feel that my relationship with my girlfriend is more like a friendship. I really have more than friend feelings for her, and so does she, but regardless, it seems more like a friendship. Any advice?
As the title says... I feel that my relationship with my girlfriend is more like a friendship. I really have more than friend feelings for her, and so does she, but regardless, it seems more like a friendship. Any advice?
So, there is no sexual chemistry between you? It is possible to care for her immensely, but not feel romantic feelings toward her. Some people either don't have chemistry, or it fizzles out if you don't share enough in common.
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Its not really the sexual tension. It could just be that I am too clingy and want to hang with her more. I would like to talk to her about it... but I'm hesitant to because I don't want her to believe that I am too clingy.
So you are sexually attracted to her? How long have you been dating?
We have been dating for a little over a month but have been friends for about a year.
Does it bother you, or are you worried it's going to bother her? How much sexual intimacy do you share? I'm not talking about sex, but all the other stuff. If the current situation is fine with you, and it's fine with her, then I wouldn't force anything.
If you want more time spent with her, tell her that. If she cares about you, she will try to do something about it.