I don't know how to approach this issue?

[Gamma]

The person that I care about has an online relationship with a guy in overseas; the problem occurred is that her online relationship seems stagnate. We do everything together; which makes me wonder if she really loves this guy?

there is obviously more to this story but to save on time I left out a lot

and I know my problem is minor but I just don't know how to tell her.

[Gamma]

Example: we go out to a movie and she suddenly says I going to tell my boyfriend I went to the movies. Normally someone that cares about you would say word with.
She always says that she wants to move where he is but I don’t see him giving her a plane ticket to come visit him or visa a versa.
I want to question her so I can move on because I’m tired of being used.

[wjs]

Facts:
1) long distance relationships suck.
2) They would probably break up soon after they reunite.
3) Long distance relationships make people _think_ that they love each other enormously.

Basically, when someone is in a long distance, they idealize how they feel about each other precisely because they arent around each other to actually know how they feel. Thus, they idealize optimistically. And for the record, internet communication doesnt stop this.

If you really like this person, then you should do something about it. Have you done anything? By anything I mean something that tells the person that you do like them, but is not something that will be awful for them. For example, don't be an idiot and try to make out with her or even do anything close to that.

Also she is probably afraid of you liking her for how it will affect her relationship with the guy. I think that's why she would talk about her boyfriend a lot. If you do everything with her, she probably secretly likes you in a sort of confused way that she wont admit to herself. You might just want to go ahead and tell her how you feel. Keep in mind that her long distance is probably tough on her and that that is what in the end would make her break up with the guy. Do NOT assume that she would break up with him for you, even if she likes you. She would do it for herself.

[Gamma]

I wasn't going to tell her because I know it will do more harm than good. wjs I understand that it's tough on her.
My hands are tied I wanted to put some space in between us but she probably might freak out again.
is there way for me for me to express my concern besides not talking to her.