Booty calls - is ok for a woman to initiate

[Mia123]

Fellas, I'm feeling horny. The guy-round-the-corner didn't "call" last weekend but I've seen him in passing during the week and we are cool. What do you think of woman making "the call"? I know he gets juiced up Friday nights and I'm hungry even for an average lay (how desperate is that?!). Would it be acceptable to rock up on his door step wearing nice lingerie under a jacket and maybe my santa hat?!

[Konsig]

Would it be acceptable to rock up on his door step wearing nice lingerie under a jacket and maybe my santa hat?!

Sure - just take some time to think out the different possible scenarios:

* what if he's not there
* what if he's not alone
* what if he rejects you
* ...

But the idea in itself is fine - don't forget to wear a smile!

[davidtorres]

heck yeah!!! guys dont back down on this stuff. and if he does then his stupid.

[Sleepwalker89]

Do it. I never once backed down when my ex initiated.

[Primo]

LOL, Mia you must be truly desperate to give the pot head another whirl. I don't know if I'd show up on his doorstep, because you may have an embarrassing walk home if he's not horny.

Plan sounds good, just set it up with him first.

[Mia123]

Ha ha! Too much festive cheer on Friday night.. the bubbles went to more than my head lol!! I was gagging for it so yes I was prepared to give him another whirl. Unfortunately, or maybe not, his house was in darkness both Fri and last night so I had to entertain myself!

If I get the urge again (God what am I saying of course I'm going to, its the silly season after all AND I'm 40 and in my prime!!) then yes, I would set it up first.

[Primo]

Mia, Mia, Mia....find a deserving guy for your prime-time action

[Mia123]

Primo, if I could I would, sadly Perth is woefully short on deserving guys. Our dull city doesn't have a social scene for my age range and I ain't into internet dating. Going to visit the UK in 4 wks so we'll see what's on offer in dear old blighty.

I'll do my best to stay away from Pot Head in the meantime.

[Primo]

Well Mia, ya, when you're single, your sex life is pretty much controlled by your options. You're 40, so most of the guys in your age group look like hell, or are taken. The ones that are hot are usually nailing younger, better looking women, because let's face it, most women over 35 look like hell too or their bodies are wasted from having kids.

I'm not talking about you specifically btw. If you're a hottie, you have some options. If you're average, then ya, it can be slim pickins' for studs at 40.

[Gigabitch]

Please remember that self-respect is also attractive. You initiate a booty call, you go down to the bottom of his list. Know this.

[Primo]

Please remember that self-respect is also attractive. You initiate a booty call, you go down to the bottom of his list. Know this.

She doesn't want a relationship GB, only a sex partner. With some guys this will keep you at the tippy top of the list.

Maybe I'm wrong though. Mia? Are you looking for a new Mr. Mia, or just to get drilled hard and bust a few nuts when you're horny?

[Gigabitch]

Sure, I get that, but it's about perceived value. If he has her calling him, I'd be willing to be he never calls her again.

[Primo]

Sure, I get that, but it's about perceived value. If he has her calling him, I'd be willing to be he never calls her again.

GB, you're a chick !

Can't speak for every guy, but most guys that get them, love the 11pm I want to fukc you texts

[lilly1185]

I had a FB, and we usually switched up who called whom.

I guess it depends on established boundaries and how well you know the person.

[Gigabitch]

Sure, I get that, but it's about perceived value. If he has her calling him, I'd be willing to be he never calls her again.

Can't speak for every guy, but most guys that get them, love the 11pm I want to fukc you texts

These are not contradictory statements.