Originally Posted by
lahnnabell
Two guys were bipolar and I subjected myself to their emotional abuse until I realized I could not "save" them.
While I don't think I'm bipolar, I know I have self esteem issues, and I remember my last girlfriend writing me letters telling me all these nice things about me and I didn't listen to her. I wonder if I was a project that she was trying to fix, although towards the end of the relationship, she was more ultimatum then compliments.
Just curious about what the emotional abuse was? I'm trying to figure out if I was badly emotionally abusing my last girlfriend, even though I didn't mean to or didn't viciously. Is tolerating a girlfriend that is calling and texting, begging and pleading on the phone with you in an extremely desparate fashion emotional abuse? Not being honest with my feelings was what I was guilty of, I guess I didn't know how to tell my vulnerable and hurting partner that what she was doing was pushing me away from her. It's a tough situation and I didn't ask for help.
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