Long-Term Relationship.

[CourtneyMarie]

So...things have been rocky with my girlfriend and I.
I lied to her about partying, which is a HUGE deal because she is in NA, an I had almost a year clean.. and we are now finally talking again. Things are good most of the times, but she gets really weird. We started having sex again, its happened twice now, but I dunno if ita a good idea ya know. Our biggest issues were BOTH of us would get so mad so easily, and we didnt make time for each other, and well I lied like an ass. I'm jus looking for opinions, suggestions, etc.

Any help?

[Wiredbomb0]

The only thing I can really say, is that lieing always bits you on the ass in the end. Relationships are built on trust. Starting off with trusting each other is the best way for a relationship to grow. You've got to make time for her, and she has to make time for you. That's the only way to go, you need to work as one. Hopefully this gives you another perspective! Good luck with everything!

[CourtneyMarie]

I have been trying to be EXTREMELY patient. It has already been almost 2months. We hang out and chill together and she acts like she wants to be with me and loves me BUT ONLY WHEN WE ARE AT HER HOUSE ALONE. What the hell kinda shit is that. I dont know how to react to that.

[vashti]

Honestly, if she is clean, and you are using, i don't think you should be together. You represent a huge risk to her.

[Gigabitch]

Did you meet in NA? Do you understand that you're both the Drama Queen in this relationship?

[CourtneyMarie]

We met in High School.
We are both Clean now. But we are done, we both need to move on, it was time. I'm jus upset she ended things so angry, but it is her choice.
Thank you for your help anyways.