what went wrong?

[trisha]

I have a phonepal...

We've been phonepals for a month now and we're also textmates (phonepal sounds old school but yeah i have one) ...

We live in the same town but last month he went out of town that's why the only way to communicate is thru call and texts...

when he went home, we planned to meet in person...we kinda clicked though he's 7 years ahead of me, i'm 23 and he's 30...

we dated 6 times and then he suddenly drifted away...

i think he changed his number already...i was left alone wondering what went wrong when in fact during our dates he seemed so sweet...

guys, what do you think was or is the problem?

[qwertz]

its not much to go on...but i wouldnt take it personally

[Primo]

Just not a love connection. He should've been upfront and told (or texted) you so when he moved on. Bottom line, he's just not interested anymore. Time to say "next"

[trisha]

primo,
yeah he should have been upfront instead of being gone like a wind...he's 30 but he's immature...

yeah, correct, time to say NEXT

[Primo]

Ya, that's immature for anyone, extremely for 30. I think you can be glad it's 'next' time :-)

[trisha]

yeah primo...

it was my first time to date a 30 year old, unfortunately, he's immature....

I'll make sure that the NEXT one would be someone who is between 23 - 26...

[RonHH]

Did he just stop all comminitaions at once? Or did it just taper off slowly?

[trisha]

Ronhh,
he just stopped all communications abruptly...we talked thru phone sunday 10:00 pm, he told me all the sweet nothings ,and all those corny stuff..and then suddenly the next day, he never texted nor made a call...

i waited like 10 hrs for him to call and then i decided that i'll be the one to call but he's phone is already unattended...my friend told me that he's still in town cause my friend saw him, so i just concluded that maybe he would never ever call again, i erased his number on my phonebook already...

but how i wish he's mature enough to tell me " hey, you're not interested enough so let's just call it quits" instead of just ditching me off like that, leaving me confused as to what's the reason behind...

[Mish]

guys, what do you think was or is the problem?

Maybe he found some one else?

[trisha]

mishanya,

yeah, maybe...or maybe because I was so boring during our dates or maybe because yadda, daa, , , i want to know the f***ng reason behind what he did...

[Illusional]

i got two questions for you,

1. why do you always seem to have guy problems.. and

2. if i answer your thread honestly, will you end up deleting it a couple days later?

raverboy

[trisha]

illusional,
answer for no.1, I DO NOT KNOW...it never happens that i got a problem on meeting guys , the problem is always how to keep someone...it's like a cycle, whenever i like someone, he's either committed or he's not interested in me...AND whenever someone likes me, it's me who could not reciprocate the affection.

answer for no. 2.
i end up deleting my threads cause after re-reading it, i realized how pathetic i am..and i realized that since May when i started joining this thread, i still have the same problem, i pity myself for that.. so to lessen the hurt, i would end up deleting my threads...

[Illusional]

what about the answer for number 2?

raverboy

[trisha]

if you answer my thread honestly, i will try my very best not to erase this thread...

I'll wait for your honest advice, thanks

[Illusional]

soooooooo, if you then decide to delete your thread, can i later reopen it?? that should be a promise for me honestly answering your question.

raverboy