sparring?..as if.
Work like you don't need the money. Love like you've never been hurt. Dance like nobody's watching
So what else do you want to know? Several ppl (including me) have posted that your relationship is fitting a square peg to a round hole.
You are young. Find someone more compatible. Things will not get better just by marrying her. That's called The Big Lie.
Second thoughts can generally be amended with judicious action; injudicious actions can seldom be recovered with second thoughts.
--Cyteen by C.J.Cherryh
You need to LION up abit, get her to sit down with you and hav a long chat with her, sort evrything out, i know this may sound abit pushy but youv gotta be DOMINANT and tell her what YOU thinnk, age doesnt matter its only a number, just do your best and sort it out BEFORE something goes wrong. but sort it in a calm manner speak very humble and calm and see what happnes mate, gud luck