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    Girlfriend wants sex but I don't

    So my girlfriend and I have been together for 6 months. She's recently been turning up the heat & putting pressure on me to have sex with her.

    So far all we do is fool around with hand jobs and we've seen each other naked but have not gone all the way to intercourse.

    How do I solve this incompatibility? I am not interested in taking the next step.

    What if I purposely made myself unattractive to her? Would that solve the problem? I'm thinking of not shaving for a good 6 months & just doing things that will turn her off so that she won't desire me sexually.

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    Quote Originally Posted by cameron180 View Post
    So my girlfriend and I have been together for 6 months. She's recently been turning up the heat & putting pressure on me to have sex with her.

    So far all we do is fool around with hand jobs and we've seen each other naked but have not gone all the way to intercourse.

    How do I solve this incompatibility? I am not interested in taking the next step.

    What if I purposely made myself unattractive to her? Would that solve the problem? I'm thinking of not shaving for a good 6 months & just doing things that will turn her off so that she won't desire me sexually.
    Chances are with this course of action you won't only not have sex but you won't have a girlfriend either..

    Why don't you want to have sex?
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    Sounds like a good idea.
    Go for it.
    Dumb arse.

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    Why cant you tell her you dont want to have sex? Maybe she'll understand.

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    Can we exchange places?

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    yeh, why dont you want sex?

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    Camspot, having sex is part of the deal in a relationship unless it's explicitly stated that it's NOT part of the deal. It looks to me like you advertised yourself as a boyfriend but you're something else entirely.

    You should never have to hide who you are, and if she is asking you of all people for sex, she doesn't know you at all. That's YOUR bad, Kenneth.
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    ok, now just read your other posts.

    I think you should be single til you sort out what you want.

    Its not nice stringing her along.

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    think theres way more to it than that...you should check out his other posts

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    hahahaha, i love your user name by the way!

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    0.o its usually the other way around isnt it???

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    omg, no sex?? Never heard of such a thing... :-P
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    Quote Originally Posted by loudrims_inc View Post
    omg, no sex?? Never heard of such a thing... :-P
    gives me cold sweats just at the thought of it!!

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