View Poll Results: Do you think it's important to have sex with someone before you marry them?

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  • No. It's against my religion. I'm male.

    1 1.75%
  • No. It's against my religion. I'm female.

    2 3.51%
  • No. Even though it's NOT against my religion. I'm male.

    3 5.26%
  • No. Even though it's NOT against my religion. I'm female.

    3 5.26%
  • Yes. It's not against my religion. I'm male.

    24 42.11%
  • Yes. It's not against my religion. I'm female.

    11 19.30%
  • Yes. Even though it's against my religion. I'm male.

    12 21.05%
  • Yes. Even though it's against my religion. I'm female.

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Thread: Do you think it's important to have sex with someone before you marry them?

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    Do you think it's important to have sex with someone before you marry them?

    Do you think it's important to have sex with someone before you marry them?

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    I don't have a religion, but I guess that means it can't be against it.

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    Yes, if you don't have a religion, choose one of the "not against my religion" ones.

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    Yes because he vag might be smelly and she might not trim her pubes or shave.

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    Sex and finances, two of the big marriage killers; I'd insist on knowing all of the details and compatibilities of both before getting married.

    And I just really like to screw.

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    I'm catholic and I'd never marry a guy I didn't have sex with.

    It's more than just sex before marriage that's against my religion in terms of sex/ relationships:
    I'm not supposed to live with him- I do.
    I'm not supposed to be on brith control- have been for 8 years
    I'm not supposed to have sex before marriage- I have
    I'm not supposed to have sex other than to procreate- I have, I do and I will.

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    Can we just get a "yes" button?

    "What you really fear is inside yourself. You fear your own power.
    You fear your own anger, the drive to do great and terrible things."


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    i don't know how much it matters if both people are virgins... they'll never know what else they could have been having.

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    It will be important for me to have sex before marriage because I do not plan on getting married until my early 30s at soonest

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    Quote Originally Posted by Chupacabras View Post
    Sex and finances, two of the big marriage killers; I'd insist on knowing all of the details and compatibilities of both before getting married.

    And I just really like to screw.
    This guy is like me but with a dick.
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    What about: No. Even if its against my religion.

    Who was that cult guy claiming lots of sex to increase intelligence?
    Second thoughts can generally be amended with judicious action; injudicious actions can seldom be recovered with second thoughts.
    --Cyteen by C.J.Cherryh

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    I'm not going to claim everyone should think like I do, but.....

    I try it before I buy it. To a certain extent you can't MAKE yourselves sexually compatible, and it's a bigger part of the relationship than most people think.
    Live as if you were to die tomorrow. Learn as if you were to live forever. - Mohandas Gandhi

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    Quote Originally Posted by IndiReloaded View Post
    What about: No. Even if its against my religion.
    It's there, just without the "Even if."

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    I am atheist so religion doesn't shade my opinions on the importance of knowing each others bodies and sexual preferences and frequencies before taking vows and dedicating my life to someone.
    Why is it that some people have an issue having sex before marriage but have no problem getting divorced?

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    i give it you you guys who wait...i wouldnt be able to i have too high a sex drive..but then again i guess you cant miss what you never had

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