going insane

[time]

i cant breath without my girlfriend every second im not with her i am in pain. i am always texting and want to ring. she works night shifts and i cant go to sleep some of the nights. if she calls me to come down i am down in a flash i am always free as she is not. i am going insane i cant even sleep at nights. i alwyas think she will cheat aswell please help

[Primo]

Being in lust or love with someone is great, thinking about them every second. But you're setting yourself up to get your heart broken here. Get some friends, hobbies, interests, get a life dude, c'mon.

[time]

i know what you mean however i do have hobbies and when i play footy i cant concentrate or when im with my friends i would rather be with her. for example i was at my mates and i stayed for only a 1hr 30min considering i used to stay for 3 hours.

[Cbrider]

How old are you?

[Graham Berkeley]

Sounds like its time to seek professional help.

[Nice Lover Boy]

Is this your 1st GF?

[time]

i am 19 why do you ask

[jackyd232]

Dude, that's obsession.

You are going to smother her, she is going to get annoyed, she is going to dump you. Like someone else said you have to spend time on your own friends and hobbies. You say you can't concentrate while doing it, but you have to get used to it. She has her own life and can't be with you every second. And don't have thoughts of her cheating unless you have a reason, c'mon now.

[Rob36]

Yep its definitely infatuation

Can only say one thing for certain-if you dont back off you will lose her.Plus,youre making it easier for her to cheat by being clingy and needy.What if she met a man who was confident and sure of himself

Im not saying she will cheat,just that youre not helping the situation

Ease off a bit if you can