Lemon raspberry bars sound delicious! What is wrong w/you Fras?
Graham cracker bottom w/lemon icing, raspberry spread and crumble topping? Or white chocolate spread on top?
I had to learn to cook when I got married. I used to burn snacking cakes (just add water). A friend of mine gave me a copy of Fannie Farmer cookbook as a birthday present & I was on my way. Now I make just about everything from scratch, from all sorts of world regions. I do a lot better w/savory than sweet, tho, even today.
Have her choose recipes from Epicurious.com. They are normally rated by people and most are decent.
Don't discourage her from learning, Fras. Cooking is a skill you get better at with practice.
Second thoughts can generally be amended with judicious action; injudicious actions can seldom be recovered with second thoughts.
--Cyteen by C.J.Cherryh