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Thread: Oh man! I think i messed up again with a different girl

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    Oh man! I think i messed up again with a different girl

    I can't believe I'm such a dumbass.

    We had an awesome date. She says she is looking for someone straightforward and doesn't play games. We connected VERY WELL.

    I think I ****in' blew it. The date was yesterday and it was one date. And I texted her saying "I had a marvelous time with you yesterday and I don't wanna play games so I'm gonna flat out say that I felt that we connected well especially since we never met before yesterday." (We met on match.com).

    She said she wanted to meet up for a second date after the first one and I just couldn't hold it. DAAAAAAAMNNNNNN!

    Can I save this?

    I can't believe I did this. I don't know what the hell is wrong with me.

    She probably thinks I'm a creeper now. HELP!
    Last edited by Raze; 28-09-09 at 05:33 AM.
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    Raze, you have a disease...throw your cellfone away!!

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    Quote Originally Posted by Raze View Post

    She said she wanted to meet up for a second date after the first one and I just couldn't hold it. DAAAAAAAMNNNNNN!

    Can I save this?

    I can't believe I did this. I don't know what the hell is wrong with me.

    She probably thinks I'm a creeper now. HELP!
    couldn't hold what, doesnt sound like you did anything wrong...
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    overreacting much? dude you did nothing wrong, stop stressing over/overthinking every move you make, THATs where your problem is, not in a little message.

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    I don't get it. You just couldn't hold what?

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    Good Grief!

    Quote Originally Posted by Raze View Post
    "I had a marvelous time with you yesterday and I don't wanna play games so I'm gonna flat out say that I felt that we connected well especially since we never met before yesterday."

    Give yourself a break.

    All you did was give her a long-winded version of "I had a great time, and I'd really like to see you again."

    How could she read any more than that into it?
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    If that what this is about then you are a drama queen Raze LOL

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    I think if she liked you, you won't have any problems. If she wasn't that much into you then it might turn her off, but then why would you want to be with someone who's not that into you anyway.
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    It actually was the right thing to do after all. =)
    I will do my best to reply with an educated, humble and honest answer. Ultimately, it is up to you whether you want to listen to my advice or ignore it completely. Sometimes, my advice may be wrong; occasionally, it will be right. Regardless, I want to do my best to give people answers they are seeking.

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    Raze, you need Valium.
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    This sounds like an excellent message. I would be patient and relax. Happiness comes to those who wait.

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    what the hell is wrong with you?

    the only thing wrong is you having a damn hemroid over that. she hasn't even responded to prove that you are in fact a psycho.

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