First Date No Kiss
So, I had my first date with this girl today who turned out to be really nice. We both got there early for the date. We hugged each other when we met (this is the girl from match.com). We went ice skating. I held her hand while we skated. I guess there has to be some chemistry for hand holding right? We talked about everything and really got to know each other.
Then, we stopped ice skating because we were both sore (it really chafes the ankles) and we talked some more. We were leaning in close as we talked (and no it was not within kissing proximity so don't get any ideas). I'm just laying down the body language I noticed.
We took a walk together for a while. Then we sat on a bench and I asked her what her views on kissing on the first date are. She said she's more comfortable kissing on the second or third. So, I took that as WARNING: do not go in for the kiss.
I walked her back to the car and we gave each other a long hug and then she said "I really liked being with you, we should do it again." She wants to see me again, but I just feel bad that we didn't kiss. Everyone says YOU HAVE TO KISS ON THE FIRST DATE. Is this true?
She also said that this was her first actual date. She's very cute, nice, and classy which is why I was surpised when she told me.
I will do my best to reply with an educated, humble and honest answer. Ultimately, it is up to you whether you want to listen to my advice or ignore it completely. Sometimes, my advice may be wrong; occasionally, it will be right. Regardless, I want to do my best to give people answers they are seeking.