There is just one way to find out. Move on. Don't contact her. Cut her out. If she loves you she'll step up to the plate and tell you once she realizes she might be loosing you. But do keep in mind she might just not like you "that" way. You can't help who you fall in love with. I wouldn't wait if I were you. You could end up waiting forever.
Best thing is to move on, and if she falls in love with you, she'll let you know and you can sort that out when that day comes.
Moving on/"no contact-method" is by the way the best way of "winning" someone back or attracting someone - because we all know that we want what we can not have. Win-win situation.
Last edited by ellie; 11-09-09 at 05:06 AM.
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