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    what body language in a man shows interest?

    Ellie said,"Watch his body language, that is a surefire way of telling. Few people can control their body language when they really like someone. Or try asking his friends. "
    could anyone name a few to make me educated? I know for sure if he gets jealous when talking about other guy, its a positive sign,what else to watch for in a male friend?

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    Quote Originally Posted by don'tcry View Post
    Few people can control their body language when they really like someone.
    The above is true.
    However, I do not want to reveal all our secrets , but I will tell you that it is obvious - when some guy really likes you, then when you're around him it is very possible for him to become a little nervous, maybe talk too much, or not talk at all (mainly he does act differently than usual), try to have more "masculine" attitude... All of that is a result of his effort to impress you, so if you note that kind of behavior, try to evaluate that

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    If he's outgoing he'll become more physical, hug you often, touch your elbow, shoulder when talking etc.

    If he's shy he may become the opposite: Get stiff, stop talking when you approach him/his group of friends, avoid eye contact.

    Try getting into is personal space bubble. For example if you sit really close to him, more than what is acceptable, if he is interested he won't move/shift position (like most ppl will), he'll enjoy having you near.
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    haha there's a girl at uni that does that. I study with her, and she's always getting up so close, with these big boobs. I actually got a hard on in the library, the other day. It's just like, having a female so close, I think it's the smell as well. It just gives you urges.
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    Well that's the reason we do it. =)) To see your reaction. I did it to a friend. He said something, I pretended I didnt hear. I leaned in really close. He didn't flinch. I swear if I would've kissed him, he still would have remained in the same position lol.

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    haha, women and their wiles.
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    I think body language is a bad indicator. Eye contact is usually a better indicator. If a guy likes you, he'll make prolonged eye contact.

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    Or he'll look away if he's shy. There's a guy I know who never can look me straight in the eyes. He manages to hold my gaze for about 1 sec before looking away.

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    Quote Originally Posted by ellie View Post
    Or he'll look away if he's shy. There's a guy I know who never can look me straight in the eyes. He manages to hold my gaze for about 1 sec before looking away.
    It's true, I can't keep eye contact with somebody I am interested in until I get to know them.

    One of the many curses of being shy, but shy guys make up for a lot when they get to know somebody and open up so it's not all bad given the chance.

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