Really needs some womanly advice

[Stacey21W]

My boyfriend and I have been together for 3 years. Recently we took a break for about a month. During that time he did sleep with someone else. Now she is saying that she might be pregnant. I have no idea how to react to this news. I mean Im mad, but I dont know what to do. What would other girls do in this situation?

[girl68]

How old are you?

I would say find out if she is or not. Actaully this is more you bf's duty than yours. How is your bf reacting to this? I think his reaction is a pretty good indicator of how you should respond to this.

[lilac]

Wait you guys were on a break and he slept with someone and you are ok with that????

[girl68]

When you are on a break the leash has been untied.

[Carmen]

I think you shouldn't have to be dealing with this.. if she is pregnant then let him decide what to do next

[vashti]

Honestly, I would advise you to leave him if she is pregnant. you should not have to pay for his indiscretions, and having a baby is a huge responsibility. You should opt out, for sure.

[Stacey21W]

Im 21, and no I was not okay with him sleeping with someone else. He's mad that he did something that stupid. Im mad and hurt because we've been together so long I just guessed that we would end up having kids one day. We have always talked about it.

[Gigabitch]

You might want to explain some of the details of the break. Who initiated it? Did he say he wanted a break because he wanted to get in this girl's pants and then came back? Did he sleep with her because he was all traumatized because you said you wanted a break? What happened?

[Stacey21W]

He wanted the break because we were fighting a lot. I had no idea that he was even talking to someone else, until we started talking again. The break was only for about a month.

[bluesummer]

You're too young to be involved in that crap. Doesn't sound like your relationship is that great as it is. I'd walk away. This won't end well.