Lost.. Don't know what to do, what to think. Help.[LONG, sorry]

[UKboy]

Dude,move on,I'm serious.
She's not one bit mature.All is see is mixed signals,she wanting her cake and eating it at the same time.
Go out,build your confidence,burrow yourself in books,spend more time in the lab to get your project done.
Then hit some sports.
Give yourself large space.
I'm moving on,you can too.

[UKboy]

I asked her to go with me to the movies with two of my other friends (guy and girl)

She said she'd ask to see if she can go.

I am doubtful she will go and will probably lie and say she cannot go, but I suppose I'll find out tomorrow.

Going to see Quantum of Solace at 7:35 PM on Tuesday.

seems like a set up for a potential dissapointment.
Stop shooting yourself in the foot!

[thechampanon]

So it's been a long time... but time for a follow up..


I got a girlfriend. I dated her for 5 months. We broke up. Within that time me and Lindsey became best friends. Right now we are. But just yesterday it hit me... I never stopped loving her. I knew when I let her have my hoodie during a storm. I don't want to love her. And then this morning, she came to a self realization she never stopped loving her ex (Drew). Well I got her to realize it and a pretty heart to heart conversation. (It was pretty ironic since I just realized I never stopped loving her either) The whole conversation felt like it could be about me OR her. She doesn't know how I feel about her.

But her and her ex kissed. She doesn't want to love him. I don't want to love her either. I've been actively looking for new girls. I'm talkin to everyone. Trying to find someone else. Someone better. But everything fails.

I don't know what to do. I almost spilled my guts to her this morning, but the conversation was about her. And I wanted to help her. She doesn't see that I've been next to her through everything..

[thechampanon]

Anyone?

I'm thinking just keep doing what I do. Talk to girls, and just always be there for her. If it ever happens, it'll happen. If not, nothing was lost.