I just got a message from my ex (mind you, first message from her for the last 3 months) saying that she's horny. No "Hi how are you", no "how have you've been I've missed you". Just this awkward message that's apparently meant to awaken some uncontrollable urges in me.
Anyway, as inviting as it sounds I know I shouldn't be going for it in light of everything else going on at the moment. Half of me wants to send her a message thanking her for the offer with a decline explaining that it's better to just be friends. Though the other half wants to just ignore her message all together and send no reply.
What do yous think?
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14-08-09, 11:46 AM #1
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Message from my ex
Don't cry, don't regret and don't blame
Weak find the whip, willing find freedom
Towards the sun, carry your name
In warm hands you are given
Ask the wind for the way
Uncertainty's gone, your path will unravel
Accept all as it is and do not blame
God or the Devil
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14-08-09, 11:53 AM #2
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I think you should ignore her. No answer is an answer to.
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14-08-09, 12:03 PM #3
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I'm not gonna be much help here because all I can do is laugh. You must be talented in the sack Mish, two thumbs up!
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14-08-09, 12:09 PM #4
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Give her my number. I promise she will never call you again
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14-08-09, 12:28 PM #5
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Ignore her. That will erk her more.
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14-08-09, 03:18 PM #6
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meh ignore. youd feel like crap if you accepted and sending a txt declining is kinda pussyish. sorry
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14-08-09, 03:28 PM #7
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Are you sure it was meant for you?
I wouldn't assume anything with email these days, Mish. If she sends another, you might consider a reply. But I think CB's reply is best: be flattered, lol.Second thoughts can generally be amended with judicious action; injudicious actions can seldom be recovered with second thoughts.
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14-08-09, 03:37 PM #8
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It was definitely meant for me because she sent it to both of my mobiles first to one and then in 10 minutes to the other.
I left it un-replied. I thought it was a bit rude of her to assume after all this time an open arm acceptance from me. Maybe if she follows it up with something decent (like an apology) I will reply.
Though, I feel sorry for her a bit. She must be really down on her luck to send me something like this. I hope she's okay.Don't cry, don't regret and don't blame
Weak find the whip, willing find freedom
Towards the sun, carry your name
In warm hands you are given
Ask the wind for the way
Uncertainty's gone, your path will unravel
Accept all as it is and do not blame
God or the Devil
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14-08-09, 03:41 PM #9
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Shit!!
She just called and said she wants to talk, she's coming over
FukkkDon't cry, don't regret and don't blame
Weak find the whip, willing find freedom
Towards the sun, carry your name
In warm hands you are given
Ask the wind for the way
Uncertainty's gone, your path will unravel
Accept all as it is and do not blame
God or the Devil
~Born to Live - Mavrik~
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14-08-09, 03:42 PM #10
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A bit more than open arms I would say. OMG.
Its interesting tho. I've never heard of a woman propositioning a guy so freely after so long. I mean, if you sent a text like that to a woman out of the blue, chances are she'd feel entitled to removing your testicles.Second thoughts can generally be amended with judicious action; injudicious actions can seldom be recovered with second thoughts.
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14-08-09, 03:43 PM #11
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Good luck, Mish. Stay cool, young man.
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Second thoughts can generally be amended with judicious action; injudicious actions can seldom be recovered with second thoughts.
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14-08-09, 05:07 PM #12
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If its not too intrusive, what were the grounds of the breakup?
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14-08-09, 08:02 PM #13
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hahaha "I'm horny" hahahahaha
Is it burnin'? Well, f-ck, now you're learnin'.
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14-08-09, 09:58 PM #14
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Eh. You really should have ignored her, but maybe it will turn out well for you. I think you know by now where I stand as far as exs are concerned. I suppose there is nothing wrong with talking. Keep us posted.
I will do my best to reply with an educated, humble and honest answer. Ultimately, it is up to you whether you want to listen to my advice or ignore it completely. Sometimes, my advice may be wrong; occasionally, it will be right. Regardless, I want to do my best to give people answers they are seeking.
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It's Australia, Indi. Originally Posted by IndiReloaded
It's pretty common for the girl to do a booty call or text after a relationship, or even before... Same as the fellows.
Australian women... don't get me started on that lot.
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