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Pfft, my wife walks in on me in the bathroom pretty much every day, while I am having a dump, or pee, or have a shower, before and/or after having sex. Sometimes she just stares at me.. then I go "WHAT?" and she giggles, which makes me smile and tickle her. Or she's on the shitter and I am brushing my teeth. What is the big deal?
Hence we still hold hands after 25 years.
So when it comes to this person: is he clingy for saying he misses her, 15 minutes after having sex? Maybe. He just as well could be expressing love for all you know, or affection. Or maybe he just wanted to get back to having the feeling of being close to her after having sex. Or he was getting ready for round 2. Do you know? Because I sure as hell don't.
It's easy to mistake a display of affection for being needy or clingy.
Only he knows. She should ask him.
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I gotta agree with Yggdrasil, also maybe it was the best way he could think of saying "hurry the F*** up i'm ready to go again"
actually i don't think thats clingy at all. i think he may have just been trying to get her in the mood to come back to bed.
you know like "hey, i miss u..why don't you come back to bed and we can have round 2?"
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lol i agree with the above post ^
Gee..I thought I saw a pussycat. ~PCD
And what the hell is wrong with that? I don't mean to be gross, but I actually thinking taking a shit is pleasurable even though it does smell. It's double release man. All guys find taking shits pleasurable and I'm sure all guys find blowjobs pleasurable. So, what's wrong with getting pleasure X 2?
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Ygg, I respect your relationship, but even good marriages should have *some* boundaries. I suppose it depends on your mutual comfort level, but I don't think I could survive with less than 2 bathrooms in my home. Anyway, that's what door locks are for.
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I will do my best to reply with an educated, humble and honest answer. Ultimately, it is up to you whether you want to listen to my advice or ignore it completely. Sometimes, my advice may be wrong; occasionally, it will be right. Regardless, I want to do my best to give people answers they are seeking.
It has nothing to do with shame. Do you have sex in front of your children, or go grocery shopping naked? Some folks do and are comfortable with that (e.g. nudists) but many are not. Also, I've read articles stating that *some* boundaries are actually good for marriage, maintaining some mystique, avoids contempt from familiarity, etc.
Personally I don't really have a problem with it, but my husband would freak. Brit, you know.
Second thoughts can generally be amended with judicious action; injudicious actions can seldom be recovered with second thoughts.
--Cyteen by C.J.Cherryh