He wont have sex with me

[Curious_1]

i have a question...my BF will do almost everything with me except have sex with me. We've never talked about it before, but we mess around a lot but right before i think he's gonna do it, he doesnt. What am i doing wrong?
Can somebody help me?

[Steve2004]

...you're not doing anything wrong....


if he's a virgin he's probably scared, if you're a virgin he probably doesn't want to scare you away, if he knows you're not on some kind of birth control, he probably is scared to get you pregnant..you probably should have talked to him about it first.

[Frebbiezadyke]

word....u dont want to force him to do anything he doesant want to do...

[Curious_1]

well, he knows im on birth control, and neither one of us are virgins so thats why im so confused

[Frebbiezadyke]

maby its u...but not being u....maby eh is afraid he is not good enough for u or thinks it might reiun the relationship or take it to a place he doesant want it to go..again just talk to him

[Steve2004]

how old are you?

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Curious, what do you look like?

[kanzaki]

wow. Hmmm, maybe he is afraid that accident will happen?

[KirstyM]

i have a question...my BF will do almost everything with me except have sex with me. We've never talked about it before, but we mess around a lot but right before i think he's gonna do it, he doesnt. What am i doing wrong?
Can somebody help me?

Talk to him about it. Ask him.

[abercromqt20]

you should definately talk to him about it first. don't drive yourself crazy thinking about it. besides if your going to be sleeping with him you should be able to talk to him about almost anything. especially this. i'm sure its not u tho. it could be alot depending on his situation. so if u really want to know just ask him or just don't worry about it and let it happen naturally.

[sephora85]

Ask him!
As girls, we are totally programmed into thinking that we aren't supposed to ask for sex ( a lot of girls think that it will make them look "slutty" ). I'ts a totally natural thing to do and I guarantee he will appreciate the offer, whatever his answer.

He could be holding back for a number of reasons, including his own personal beliefs, but also he could just be nervous. So definitely make sure you talk to him about this! Communication is the most important part of a relationship.