What would hurt you more?

[Freefalling]

Youre deeply in love with your bf. But you cheated on him... because he hurt you or for whatever reason.

He finds out. He breaks up with you. You want him back so much.

You regret what you did and fight to get him back.

Now what would hurt you more... If he ignored you and you realized you could never get him back and that he is with another woman right now...or...if he took you back and just treated you like a **** buddy?

[Yggdrasil]

To bad you didn't get some kind of STD.

Now THAT would hurt.

Oh, btw, I hope he places a restraining order against you.

[Freefalling]

Its a hypothetical question btw

[Yggdrasil]

yeah ok.. sure.. whatever you say sugarplum.

[bluesummer]

I think being treated like a **** buddy would be worse.

Sounds like a shitty relationship from the get go. Why anyone who cheats would expect someone to take them back I just don't understand.

[LoveWanderer]

I agree being treated like **** buddy would be the worse. Lose total dignity when you realize you were just nothing but a piece of meat. One of my exes used me as a rebound just to piss off the girl who broke up with him. And as naive as I was when I was younger, I fell in for him with heart and soul till I realized 6 months later that I was just a tool for him to boost up his ego, his confidence and get out of his pains from breakup.

[brightgirl]

Youre deeply in love with your bf. But you cheated on him... because he hurt you or for whatever reason.

He finds out. He breaks up with you. You want him back so much.

You regret what you did and fight to get him back.

Now what would hurt you more... If he ignored you and you realized you could never get him back and that he is with another woman right now...or...if he took you back and just treated you like a **** buddy?

yeah, I agree. being treated like a slab of meat would be worse, although it might take some time for some people to realize that's all they were.
Being ignored would hurt, but at least you'd know it was your own fault.

[Gribble]

Ugh. Revenge cheating is just horrible. How can anyone do that? I mean, I can't even stand the idea of monogamy, but that still bugs the hell out of me.

[Raze]

I would be pissed if I was a **** buddy

[vashti]

I realized 6 months later that I was just a tool for him to boost up his ego, his confidence and get out of his pains from breakup.

I know I am supposed to be offended on your behalf at this ^^, but really, don't we ALL do this? Isn't one of the benefits of being in an intimate relationship that a person feels good? It seems more honest to say you were angry he didn't love you, at least not the way he loved the other girl, and perhaps not at all.