flirt Boyfriend.

[Gray]

guys...

why do some men still flirt with other girls when in fact they have gfs?

he was invited by my bestfriend to watch a movie, then he went..
im REALLY HURT.
he explained to me that it was just a friendly invitation..but, in the first place, i ddnt want him to go with her or even get along with her...because my friend had feelings for him..
wat do you think about it?
am i too possessive????...

do men want possessive women?

[little pingoin]

I think some men want possessive women like some women want men that put them in the hospital. It's not particularly healthy though.

You can't control who your boyfriend's friends are. On the other hand, you can tell your boyfriend that you'd be more comfortable if he didn't accept one-on-one invitations from her because you know she has feelings for him. There's no reason the two of you can't go to her house for movie night.

I would also have a talk with this friend of yours. Trying to hook up with your friends' significant others is a big no-no.

If both of them are unreceptive to your concerns, you might save yourself a lot of trouble and look for a new guy. This might be classic guy-gets-with-one-girl-to-get-close-to-someone-she's-close-to.

[SouthwestGuy]

If your boyfriend is hanging out with your best friend, you need to ask if he is REALLY your boyfriend. And quite honestly, you need to ask if she is REALLY your best friend.

If I found out my best friend was inviting my girlfriend out to movies and such, I would be done with BOTH of them. That is just plain wrong.

[Gray]

"If both of them are unreceptive to your concerns, you might save yourself a lot of trouble and look for a new guy. This might be classic guy-gets-with-one-girl-to-get-close-to-someone-she's-close-to."

----really,? you think so??? and it's not just that moment i got angry. he is a total FLIRT.
but, you know, i keep on tolerating him, I cant lose him.
i want him to change.......wat are the things i might do for him to learn???

thnks guys!

[Gray]

i think they both suck!
(my friend and bf)
maybe it'll be better if they wo just hook up!
right???
....im gonna wait for that guy. ill be over him. hopefully.

[Junket]

How old are you?

[Junket]

Also how old are you?

I got first dibs.

[valkyrie4896]

It is highly inappropriate to ask someone's bf/gf out for a 1-on-1 date, if she simply wants to hang out, why cant she ask the both of you to come, or make it a double date?

You need to make sure your bf realize that this is not appropriate and is making you uncomfortable, knock some sense into him. And her too.

Handle it right and rationally, and you get to keep both.

[Gray]

believe me, i'm just 15. too young for this but i know it's LOve.
maybe you're right. I DONT NEED A MAN LIKE HIM. or a friend like her.

[Gray]

do you think, I cant change a man?..yeah, i should not change him for who he is. im such a loser..

[Junket]

Stop the drama.

You'll be better off for it.

And no, you can't change people.

Hell, you don't even have to try when you're 15, people will change a lot by the time your 18, and even more by the time you're 21.

[valkyrie4896]

Yeah, you are still young, but hopefully you learn something out of these.