Lived with a guy you didn't love?

[Graham Berkeley]

All of the quintessential 'nice' guys I know are pushovers. Saying he's a nice guy is kinder than saying he's a wuss.

That doesn't mean the rest of the guys out there aren't nice. It just means they're not panty-waists.

I always think it's a bit off that the implied assumption is that if one is not a nice guy, then he must be an egomaniacal, arrogant ass.

Yeah she says he is a push over.

Go for it, you generous, kind asshole. Quit being a weasel and tell her you want her for yourself.

When I was younger I woulda already had her but now I find myself realizing if she will cheat on him she will cheat on me. Further more I don't feel like being the rebound guy.

[Gigabitch]

Then leave her alone. What you're doing isn't respectful of either one of you.

[Graham Berkeley]

Then leave her alone. What you're doing isn't respectful of either one of you.

And what am I doing?

[Gigabitch]

Looking for a crack in the door you don't even really want to walk through. Being her "friend" when you have a thing for her. Crossing the boundaries.

Don't be disingenuous. You KNOW what you're doing.

[Graham Berkeley]

Looking for a crack in the door you don't even really want to walk through. Being her "friend" when you have a thing for her. Crossing the boundaries.

Don't be disingenuous. You KNOW what you're doing.

And why don't you think I'd go in through the crack?

[Gigabitch]

Because of this:

When I was younger I woulda already had her but now I find myself realizing if she will cheat on him she will cheat on me. Further more I don't feel like being the rebound guy.

Look, if you want her, go get her. If you don't, stop dangling yourself in front of her like a tasty treat. Are you trying to make her cheat?

I think you should tell her you want her to get disentangled from that guy so she can get tangled up in your sheets.