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    Why women cheat?

    What are some reasons women cheat. If you have cheated...what lead you to do it? Why would a woman cheat multiple times and still be looking to get married to someone? I know there isn't an excuse to cheat, just trying to gain some meaningful insight. Thanks in advance!

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    If a woman cheats it's entirely her partner's fault. Women are infallible. Most likely her boyfriend's penis was too small by an unfathomable quarter inch or he was too busy to give her the attention she deserves.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Gribble View Post
    If a woman cheats it's entirely her partner's fault. Women are infallible. Most likely her boyfriend's penis was too small by an unfathomable quarter inch or he was too busy to give her the attention she deserves.
    Thanks for the laugh

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    Women cheat because they're often flighty sorts no longer reigned in by the moral or ethical conventions of previous ages. As Gribble pointed out, it's never their fault, and they're more than capable of devising a legitimate explanation of why the should have cheated and continue to do so.

    Women are different than men in that women need boundaries given to them, men decide their boundaries and live by them unapologetically for better or worse.

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    Women cheat for the same reasons men cheat:

    1. they don't get what they need in their relation, be that empathy, compasion, understanding, love, appreciation, sex,....;

    2. lack of self-esteem;

    3. whatever else I can't think of right now.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Yggdrasil View Post
    Women cheat for the same reasons men cheat:

    1. they don't get what they need in their relation, be that empathy, compasion, understanding, love, appreciation, sex,....;

    2. lack of self-esteem;

    3. whatever else I can't think of right now.
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    When women are young they cheat because a better looking, richer, more dominant man has come their way and knew what buttons to press.

    When women are older it is because they are in a relationship without passion.

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    its true some women think like this.
    its good

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    For the same reasons men cheat boredom, insecurity, self loathing, lack of will power, lack of self knowledge and just plain evil. It's almost always reflective of the character. You will find that people who cheat and justify it will also have no problem with stealing and justifying it as well.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Mishanya View Post
    You will find that people who cheat and justify it will also have no problem with stealing and justifying it as well.
    Doesn't work in reverse necessarily. I've had no problem stealing and justifying it however I have not and will not cheat.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Graham Berkeley View Post
    Doesn't work in reverse necessarily. I've had no problem stealing and justifying it however I have not and will not cheat.
    What did you steal? Someone elses woman?
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    Quote Originally Posted by Yggdrasil View Post
    What did you steal? Someone elses woman?
    Actually... Yes... haha

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    Quote Originally Posted by Graham Berkeley View Post
    When women are young they cheat because a better looking, richer, more dominant man has come their way and knew what buttons to press.

    When women are older it is because they are in a relationship without passion.
    I'd probably agree the most with this.

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    As Lloyd use to say, probably because he didn't PIITP!
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    Ahahahahah!! I haven't seen that phrase used in a looong time!

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