OK the behavior of this girl that I'm crazy about confuses the hell out of me, and I think the best way to show it is systematically:
Positive signs:
- Accepts date purposals everytime she isnt busy, which she has never lied about (Don't think I'm a stalker, I just live in a small town, where everyone knows what everyone else is doing).
- Dresses up for every date
- By second date, starts volunteering personal information, the type you only tell someone you trust
- Her friends and family started paying extra attention to me after I first asked her out
- After a month lapse in communication, she seeks me out and tells me that we should hang out more often
- By second date body language is indicating good things (Legs crossed towards me, touching, etc)
- Often drops hints about how she likes to be treated, which is the way I treat girls anyway.
- Tells me she hates jocks, cocky guys, and assholes (All of which she knows I'm not
- Volunteered the fact that the only two guys I ever thought she might be with were nothing more than friends, even though I never indicated anything about it.
- Identical tastes in music
- Similar views on politics
- When in school, we smile and say hi whenever we pass in the halls.
- She seemed nervous the first couple of times I asked her out.
- Sometimes goes out of her way to get my attention when I don't notice her.
Negative signs:
- When ever its not just the two of us together, she almost completely ignores me
- NEVER calls me, weather it be to ask to hang our or even just to talk.
- Doesnt treat me like any of the other guys she knows
Now even though there are less negative signs, they hold more weight individually than any one of the positive signs.
Now I am somewhat decent-looking I think. I am confident, nice but not TOO nice, easy to talk to, funny, and a pretty sweet guy overall.
I just want to know what you guys think about the whole situation.