worried he will never ask!

[mezmorize]

Ok so here it is... We have been living together for 4 years. A day does not go by that I don't get asked when we are getting married by family, coworkers and friends. Yes things are great. I am 28, he is 32, and before we met he was with a woman for 8 years and was ready to buy her a ring, why is he so hesitant with me? I have sat and watched my girlfriends meet guys after and they are all ready married! I don't pressure him, but he knows that i want to get married. Is he debating and not sure I am the one? Is there something wrong with me? Is it ever going to happen?

[Tired]

did the other woman turn him down?

[mezmorize]

no, he was starting to save, then he realized she was not good for him. We were dating for a few months and they met for a drink, he realized then that he loved me. Left there and called me immediately.

[Tired]

he may have fears of committing "forever", i'd imagine its relatively normal, marriage is a big step

[Gigabitch]

Well, if he was ready to buy her a ring after eight years, it sounds like you have four more years to go before you hit the mark with him.

Is he a dragass in all other regards or just romantically?

[vashti]

I don't see why he should want to get married... he is probably having all his needs met without benefit of marriage, isn't he?

[mezmorize]

ugh of course. minus 1 that i am saving for a husband. Well that s*cks to be me then! I just don't get why it hasn't happened yet. it's just fustrating. Is there anything I can do?

[vashti]

Have you told him you want to get married? If not, then you should. You should also decide how long you are willing to keep the arrangement as it is.