I feel so pathetic. It's been 4 months and I am still completely enamored by my ex. I just can not get over him. I love him so much STILL and everyday the breakup still seems surreal. I am starting to think there is no hope of a future with us (at least anytime soon). I just am still so desperate after 4 months. Why does life still suck without him. I've seen other guys and to me no one compares. I've been having fun my life is by no means on hold-just so often I wish he was still with me to talk about things, or I wish he was at things with me. My friends and family tell me I can do better but I just want my ex. Whenever I talk to friends or family they act like I'm crazy and they don't understand how much this hurts. I just don't know what to do. Any advice...