So, what you're really saying is that what you want is what matters and you don't feel that you need to respect that she is in a relationship and that consciously or not you're attempting to intrude upon that by stealing her attentions and energy away whenever you can...
Pretty much you're pathetic and an energy leech. You don't respect women, and you don't respect monogamous relationships unless its your monogamous relationship. Double standard much? Grow up, move on, find someone who is actually single.
"Well, then," the Cat went on, "you see a dog growls when it's angry, and wags its tail when it's pleased. Now I growl when I'm pleased, and wag my tail when I'm angry. Therefore I'm mad."