2 Things: Anti-climatic Orgasms and Unprotected Sex

[Junket]

In my 1 year or so of having sex, I've found that I don't really find the orgasm to be that big a deal, marginally better than getting myself off through masturbation.

I feel like I think about sex constantly, whether it's with my girlfriend or not. The act of sex, the actual f*cking part I enjoy, and I feel like it's ruined by the part when I orgasm.

Maybe it's growing up with porn, or maybe that has nothing to do with it at all since it seems many people enjoy watching themselves have sex. I last longest in the missionary position, but lay her on her side, or enter from behind, and I can barely hold my load.

In fact sometimes I can't hold my load. Which results in me trying to, but failing, and I go from having an okay orgasm to a "ah...wait!...aw..."

Anymore, I find orgasms to be somewhat boring.


That was just the first part.

The second part is that I've never had vaginal or anal sex without a condom. Neither are recommended for obvious reasons, but I can't help but feel like I might be missing out. Condoms never bothered me before, but the other night I was rubbing up between her back end and I found that easily more enjoyable than full anal penetration with a condom.

-shrug-

[Charlie Boy II]

If you f-ck without a condom it feels heaps better for the first few thrusts and then about the same.

And I kind of agree with you about orgasms. My best are when there's been a huge build-up, like a couple of days without it, and then a pretty long session where I've been holding on and then BOOM!!

[NeoSeminole]

Frasbee says:

"I last longest in the missionary position, but lay her on her side, or enter her from behind*, and I can barely hold my load."

[Cbrider]

Like charlie said, its good for the first few, but then its all the same in a lot of ways. Honestly, as soon as you have the body heat transfered, theres no difference in sensation.

On top of that, it might sound stupid, but its nice to come out somewhat clean. When you pull out with no rain jacket on, it gets cold fast and you get the whole wax coating going on.

P.S. Ahahaha, nice Neo.

[Rollerderby]

You last longer with a condom on.

[lesa]

Frasbee says:

"I last longest in the missionary position, but lay her on her side, her enter from behind, and I can barely hold my load."

I'm quoting Neo because we have the same thing in mind.


Very, very few men can hold their load in such a situation.

[Junket]

I need to stop posting right before bed...


So, great. Sex isn't even that much better without a condom?

What a bummer.

[Yggdrasil]

The Multi-Orgasmic Man: Sexual Secrets Every Man Should Know.

Paperback: 256 pages
Publisher: HarperOne
Language: English
ISBN-10: 0062513362
ISBN-13: 978-0062513366

[Junket]

But I don't need 50 lackluster orgasms, I just need 1 really good orgasm.

[Yggdrasil]

But I don't need 50 lackluster orgasms, I just need 1 really good orgasm.

Trust me

[Charlie Boy II]

Just don't wank or root for a week, and then get your girlfriend to blow you for like 15 minutes before you root her. That'll put you into the next dimension.

The best orgasm I ever had, ever, was whe Kristen and I went on this surfing/camping trip. It was in the middle of winter and we had to put on like five layers before bed. We had a quick root in the middle of the week, but wild turkeys kept scratching at the tent and we thought they were kids so we stopped half way through.

Anyway after a week sleeping it rough in the freezing cold, on the last night we booked into a five star hotel. I went to get dinner and while I was gone Kristen changed into lingerie and did her hair and make-up. She opened the door like that and my jaw hit the floor. And then we f-cked for like five hours.

I hadn't blown for a week, so I had the power of five tigers. We f-cked on the hotel bed, in the bath, down in the hotel spa, back in the hotel room, back in the bath and then back in between the crisp hotel sheets. She gave me the longest, most luxurious blowjob. She was like a goddess that night. I remember pouring champagne over her naked body.

Whoa, I got a bit caught up in the memory. One of the best nights of my life, no doubt.

[Yggdrasil]

I went to get dinner and while I was gone Kristen changed into lingerie and did her hair and make-up. She opened the door like that and my jaw hit the floor. And then we f-cked for like five hours.

I hadn't blown for a week, so I had the power of five tigers. We f-cked on the hotel bed, in the bath, down in the hotel spa, back in the hotel room, back in the bath and then back in between the crisp hotel sheets. She gave me the longest, most luxurious blowjob. She was like a goddess that night. I remember pouring champagne over her naked body.

Whoa, I got a bit caught up in the memory. One of the best nights of my life, no doubt.

Now we're talking.

[vashti]

Wow CB, impressive!

Frasbee - I have no suggestions for you other than to decrease frequency and avoid masturbating to increase the intensity, and increase the frequency and wear a rubber to prolong the act.

[Charlie Boy II]

I just remembered I posted about that night here.

[URL="http://www.loveforum.net/intimate-forum/17677-charlie-boys-thread-last-lay-3.html#post280319"]

When I'm old I'm still going to look back on that and smile.That combination of hard lust and a deeper connection is very special.

[doppelgaenger]

I find that sex feels much better without a condom... and there is something psychological about ****ing without protection.