You have a girl friend that loves to party and ecstacy (as in the pill). One day you have a major fight which almost ends the relationship. 3 weeks later you make up and everything is back to normal. With extra passion and missing because of the long time that you didnt see or talk to each other.
So you agree to meet each other the 2nd day you made up. She comes over to your place looking gorgeous. You have hot, passionate make up sex. Youre all over each other the whole time. About 4 ours later...at about 4 in the morning. She calls her friends to come and pick her up. She had already planned to have them pick her up from your place so they could go party. But she didnt tell you that. You didnt know that she was going to be picked up by her friends so they could go party...until she got off the phone and said "baby, im going right now".
Her friends come, they wait outside for her to come out, she dresses up, puts on her make up and off she goes. She goes to a private party and spends the entire night there loading up on ecstacy pills. She goes back home at 4 pm.
Now how would you feel if you were the guy? You hadnt seen your girl friend in 3 weeks. When you make up, the first time you see her after you made up. She spends 4 hours with you and then without giving you prior notice, she has her friends come and pick her up from your place so she spends 12 hours with them partying while on ecstacy. And mind you...its not like you can see each other ever day either. You can only see each other on the weekends. So basicaly, she used up the majority of the available time to spend with her 1 or 2 friends and a bunch of strangers. This in the same day you made up after a huge fight. So as the guy, how would you feel?