You cannot hold another person responsible for how you might react. That's a YOU problem... and the accountability falls squarely on YOUR shoulders. So as they say... own up or shut up.
Ignoring advice just because you don't like the source is a big mistake. Some of the most important lessons in life are learned from enemies and people we don't like. I'd suggest you'd pay attention... because you missed a lot of what Lite had to say... and by ignoring him... robbed yourself of good advice and slit your own throat in your attempt to appear better than him --- or prove him wrong.
As for your behavior stated in the original post... numbers, races, and blowjobs don't matter... unless you accrued your numbers, were doing another guy (of any race), and/or giving a blowjobs to other guys while in a committed relationship with a guy.
"The weakest soul, knowing its own weakness, and believing this truth that strength can only be developed by effort and practice, will, thus believing, at once begin to exert itself, and, adding effort to effort, patience to patience, and strength to strength, will never cease to develop, and will at last grow divinely strong."
- James Allen