how will you react?

[trisha]

how will you react when your bf for 2 years, will just text you and tells you this : go on with your life, I'm happy with my new girl now...

take note, this guy always claims that he's so into you and all those sweet nothings...

how would you reply to that text message?

[MrBojangles]

Wow what a piece of shit. I guess he got bored and wanted something new, then didn't have the balls to break up with you in person. He's probably been cheating on you with her for a while. This guy's a shitbag and I think you should meet him in person so you can slap his face!

Of course I could be wrong

[trisha]

mrBojangles,

i think he's with that girl since october, just addtional info, ours is a long distance relationship...

but now, i went home, one of the reasons i went home is HIM...

i wanna slap him really , I'm hurt but I'm just diverting my attention to a new guy who seems to be interested in me ..

[Yggdrasil]

how will you react when your bf for 2 years, will just text you and tells you this : go on with your life, I'm happy with my new girl now...

take note, this guy always claims that he's so into you and all those sweet nothings...

how would you reply to that text message?

You don't.. go on with your life, it's obvious he don't care about you, why would you care about him? You live in the now, not the past. So, get yourself a nice hairjob, put on some fancy clothes, parade around and find yourself a new boyfriend. Life goes on, and he isn't waiting for you, while you're getting upset about .. what exactly???

[MrBojangles]

Nah, you were together for two years. You have all these feeling of anger and others I bet, you cant just ignore it. You need to tell him so he knows, and THEN move on. I think you will feel much better than just "ignoring" it.

It pisses me off sometimes when people say "why should you care etc". Its a matter of selfrespect, you're not gonna let this asshole just dump you like that, you're gonna make him remember. I think guys are more prone to this behaviour, like putting a girlfriends pictures out on the internet as revenge. They do it because it feels GOOD

[trisha]

mr. bojangles,

yeah, i just cant ignore it...

i don't think i deserve such treatment from a guy i trusted so much...

[misombra]

didn't you just tell me yesterday that you've been dating a guy for 3 months?

[trisha]

misombra, i sent you a private message so that you wont be confused, just check it out..thanks

[WonderMan]

I would kill both him and his new girl ;D

[reeba]

You have every right to be mad.

Did you know prior that he was dating someone else?

I agree the best thing is to just ignore it. Hard to do, but no matter what you say you will never feel better about what he did.

Write a letter, hold onto it for a week, and then burn it up. Writing is good therapy, but sending it is usually a mistake.

Better luck next time around. It shouldn't be that hard to find someone who treats you better.

[WonderMan]

Get a guy, and then let him see you with that guy, and when he sees you, kiss that guy really sexy, sexier then you ever kissed him. Then he would be jealous and you will get revenge ^^

It doesn't metter what anyone says, but nothing feels good as revenge does.

[alovehangoverr]

Weren't you cheating on him or had cheated on him anyway?

Call it even and move on.

[Volk]

The guy is a prick. It's unfortunate you didn't live closer together.

You could just not reply, and give cold shoulder, that would probably get to him.

[Illusional]

i'd go out and party and say f*ck the past. it's not worth crying over.

raverboy

[Doc Durian]

how will you react when your bf for 2 years, will just text you and tells you this : go on with your life, I'm happy with my new girl now...

take note, this guy always claims that he's so into you and all those sweet nothings...

how would you reply to that text message?

"Thats ok. I couldn't climax with you 4 real. Hope she likes prawns. Good luck"